All I can say is that my home has more than doubled in value since I bought it 18 years ago (including any adjustment to the market that happened in the last 18 months).
We have paid off the mortgage, so all we pay now are taxes, insurance and maintenance ($500/mth) and I get to look forward to these low costs for a long time to come as the asset continues to appreciate. I would have to pay at least $2,500/month plus renters insurance to live in a comparable home, and I would have no asset.
So if you live in the thing for a really long time, then yeah you may be ahead financially. Like 20+ years or more, depending on your rate of payment and how long you have just been paying taxes and not the mortgage.
The first years you were severely in the hole, compared to renting. Most people move after 7 years, so yeah, renting is better in that case, at least financially.
