Is having sex with your good freinds EX-GF OK ?

polm

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I just found out that my Ex-GF was screwing my good friend after we broke up .

I am really really pissed/hurt .

Am I wrong to feel this way ?
 

Grey

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It depends who did the break up. If she dumped you that is cold. But if you dumped her you really can't complain to much. How long has she been the Ex ?
 

godmare

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Originally posted by: polm
I just found out that my Ex-GF was screwing my good friend after we broke up .

I am really really pissed/hurt .

Am I wrong to feel this way ?
I dunno.. like he was just waiting for you two to break up?

 

4Lclovergirl

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No, you have ever right to feel that way, but you can't really change anything about it. It sucks, but you have to think, why did you break up anyway, and maybe it was ment to be with them? And will it even last with them?

But overall, you have every right to be pissed and feel hurt. I totally feel your pain.
 

Feldenak

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Well, how soon after the break-up did they start humping like rabbits? If it was within a week, I would suspect something was going on before the relationship ended.
 

Talon02

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Originally posted by: Feldenak
Well, how soon after the break-up did they start humping like rabbits? If it was within a week, I would suspect something was going on before the relationship ended.

Unless she is REALLY loose, beware of loose women.
 

godmare

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Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
No, you have ever right to feel that way, but you can't really change anything about it. It sucks, but you have to think, why did you break up anyway, and maybe it was ment to be with them? And will it even last with them?

But overall, you have every right to be pissed and feel hurt. I totally feel your pain.

Umm, meant to be? Just because two people are shagging doesn't mean there's a relationship, much less a serious future...
 

4Lclovergirl

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Originally posted by: godmare
Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
No, you have ever right to feel that way, but you can't really change anything about it. It sucks, but you have to think, why did you break up anyway, and maybe it was ment to be with them? And will it even last with them?

But overall, you have every right to be pissed and feel hurt. I totally feel your pain.

Umm, meant to be? Just because two people are shagging doesn't mean there's a relationship, much less a serious future...

No it doesn't, but he didn't give alot of info. So I was throwing out suggestions. Hence the maybe it won't even last, maybe it was a rebound thing.

 

Looney

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What kind of good friend would be shagging your ex behind your back? No, that's not alright, at least not with anybody i would consider a friend.
 

godmare

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Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
Originally posted by: godmare
Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
No, you have ever right to feel that way, but you can't really change anything about it. It sucks, but you have to think, why did you break up anyway, and maybe it was ment to be with them? And will it even last with them?

But overall, you have every right to be pissed and feel hurt. I totally feel your pain.

Umm, meant to be? Just because two people are shagging doesn't mean there's a relationship, much less a serious future...

No it doesn't, but he didn't give alot of info. So I was throwing out suggestions. Hence the maybe it won't even last, maybe it was a rebound thing.

mm, touche
:)
 

4Lclovergirl

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Originally posted by: godmare
Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
Originally posted by: godmare
Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
No, you have ever right to feel that way, but you can't really change anything about it. It sucks, but you have to think, why did you break up anyway, and maybe it was ment to be with them? And will it even last with them?

But overall, you have every right to be pissed and feel hurt. I totally feel your pain.

Umm, meant to be? Just because two people are shagging doesn't mean there's a relationship, much less a serious future...

No it doesn't, but he didn't give alot of info. So I was throwing out suggestions. Hence the maybe it won't even last, maybe it was a rebound thing.

mm, touche
:)



Nawww, just clarifying myself. I guess things sometimes sound wrong when you are online and not reading what you are typing before you post :p
 

wnied

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You said she was an Ex.

An Ex is an Ex no matter how long you were broke up for...

...Alls fair in Love and War.
~wnied~
 

Grasshopper27

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If he is such a good friend, he would have asked first. If all he is doing is sleeping with her, and he asked first, I personally wouldn't care, but his not saying anything is pretty lousy.

If it was recent, she is probably just trying to hurt you, and she also knows a lot of guys will not turn down free sex. If your friend had any brains and any heart, he would have told you, then done it, thus screwing her over, because she would not be getting what she wanted and your friend would. ;)

: ) Hopper
 

RgrPark

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It's just plain wrong to go out with your friend's ex. that's off limits, unless you marry her.
 

amnesiac

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If your breakup was any less than a few months ago, your ex is a whore and your best friend is a jerk.

Otherwise, if it's been a while, it's your loss, his gain. :)