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RichUK

Lifer
Feb 14, 2005
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Originally posted by: confused1234
Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: confused1234
Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: confused1234
well for your sake....your in the military

also what does qft mean?:confused:

I_AM_NOT_IN_THE_MILITARY ... I work for Fujitsu who are part of a consortium that hold the contracts for the MoD

I_AM_TRYING_TO_HELP_YOU

PLEASE_REITERATE_ ME _NO_UNDERSTANDING_YOUR_HELPFULNESS :confused:

ME_R_TRYING_TO_GET_YOU_TO_CHEAT_ON_GF_=SEX_=WINNAR

ME_LIKEIES_YOUR_THINKING!_ME_GOING_TO_GET_MY_FREAK_ON_TOMORROW_ON_TEH_SLY_SO_TO_=_TEH_WINNAR
 

RichUK

Lifer
Feb 14, 2005
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Originally posted by: Number1
Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: confused1234
if your in themilitary do it! we all know when people go overseas there gfs cheat on them!

I'm not in the military, sh!t no. I?m a junior project manager, consultant for the MoD, who is involved with a large team generating business on all of the large military contracts. This is the biggest contract i work on, but only one of many within my remit.

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Go to bed

lol, what part don't you understand. :confused:

ok, my bad, within instead of with. So what else confused your little brain?
 

TXHokie

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Have some decency...give your two weeks notice before starting your new job heh?
 

spidey07

No Lifer
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Not really. If you aren't exclusive then nothing wrong at all.

Heck, even if you are exclusive try out the new girl and go for the upgrade.
:thumbsup:
 

reverend boltron

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Originally posted by: TXHokie
Have some decency...give your two weeks notice before starting your new job heh?

QFT

Seriously though. If you're into this other girl, then just break up with your current girlfriend. There is no sense putting her through the pain torment of being cheated on just because you're being selfish. She didn't do anything to you, so why punish her. Besides, why be a jerk to her now and end the relationship on bad terms. Just be cool with her, tell her that you don't feel like the relationship is going anywhere and be done with it. That way you won't have to deal with crazy ex-girlfriend drama, you won't her the poor girl, and you won't be stepping on the toes of someone that might end up coming back to kick you in the butt later on in life.
 
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how old are you?

i don't really think there's much point in a serious relationship until you're 25 or so, anyway

so i say if you're around there, go for it

you only live once
 

Molondo

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Viperoni

Lifer
Jan 4, 2000
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Originally posted by: reverend boltron
Originally posted by: TXHokie
Have some decency...give your two weeks notice before starting your new job heh?

QFT

Seriously though. If you're into this other girl, then just break up with your current girlfriend. There is no sense putting her through the pain torment of being cheated on just because you're being selfish. She didn't do anything to you, so why punish her. Besides, why be a jerk to her now and end the relationship on bad terms. Just be cool with her, tell her that you don't feel like the relationship is going anywhere and be done with it. That way you won't have to deal with crazy ex-girlfriend drama, you won't her the poor girl, and you won't be stepping on the toes of someone that might end up coming back to kick you in the butt later on in life.

QFT

 

moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: RichUK
i was out for my mates birthday tonight, and had a great time. My GF was out for a short while, but i met this other girl tonight that is absolutely amazing. I've never clicked with someone so much in my life.

Should i kind of cheat in the background to see how it turns out?

I'm drunk right now and think it is a good idea...
hopefully she was out cheating on you too.

 

Azraele

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Nov 5, 2000
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Cheating is never ok. If you're questioning your current relationship, take the appropriate steps to adress that first.
 

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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If you still live by the "are we going steady" thing and haven't said it to each other, by all means, nail other people. But as far as I know, the rest of us usually are committed to just 1 person at a time. Just FYI.
 

Spineshank

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Jun 8, 2001
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Cheating isnt the right thing. If you feel you got something more with the new girl then go for it. But leave your current gf first. Its a hard decision to make, i just made it last week after a little over 3 years. But we had our issues and what not.
 

sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: RichUK
i was out for my mates birthday tonight, and had a great time. My GF was out for a short while, but i met this other girl tonight that is absolutely amazing. I've never clicked with someone so much in my life.

Should i kind of cheat in the background to see how it turns out?

I'm drunk right now and think it is a good idea...
hopefully she was out cheating on you too.


Right between the ribs. Good one, Mosh. :D