Is buying a house ever easy?

paulxcook

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In late January, we (wife and I) find a house we like. 1900 square feet, 1.75 acre, a good place to live and have a family while the area appreciates. The seller, however, is also the agent. Bad news? Yes. Originally offered with the house is a new roof. There was hail damage in April of 06, so her insurance is to pay for the new roof and for repairs to ceilings and beams caused by roof leakage. Our offer is contingent upon the roof being done by closing. Closing is Feb 22. This closing date approaches, and around the 15th, we start getting snow and rain and colder temps. This is after a winter full of 50-60 degree days, no precipitation, etc. Great roofing weather. But now the roof can't be put on. We push closing back a week, but we drive by several times and no work is being done on the house, despite 4 dry days with 40+ degree weather. I finally call the contractor who has been promised the work, who says not only can they not get it done by closing, but they can't guarantee it will be done in March. So, we walk out on the deal.

We find a new place. More square footage, a lot less land, but fewer needed improvements. The owners apparently aren't able to make payments anymore, so the bank is starting foreclosure. We offer $100 over the asking price, as we hear we aren't the only ones offering. However, the owners are MIA. Their cell phones have been canceled, the only mailing address belongs to the house we're trying to buy, and the bank isn't sure they can accept the offer since foreclosure just started. So they hem and haw for 3 days, then respond that they can't accept the offer, the owners are nowhere to be found, and there is now a 3rd offer in. We all must wait at least 45 days to hear anything.

On top of all this, our current house (we are renting) is being rented to another tenant starting April 1. Our landlord was nice enough to give us an open lease so we could look for a house to own, and pay month-to-month. He just asked that we let him know when we were getting close. Since we had a set closing date for the 1st house, that seemed close enough. However, since our rental is the nice side of a duplex for a decent price, the first person to view the house wanted it. We weren't expecting him to sign someone to a contract so quickly.

The surprising thing to me isn't all the crap that's gone wrong. Not anymore. It's that when I talk to co-workers and friends, they have horror stories too. Buying a house is a massive pain in the ass.

Cliffs:
- 1st owner/seller promised a roof, couldn't deliver twice, we walked on the deal
- 2nd owners dropped off face of planet, bank can't sell for at least 45 days
- We must be out of rental house by March 31
- Buying a house sucks :thumbsdown: :thumbsdown: :thumbsdown:
 

hanoverphist

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i looked at houses for a few months, found the one i wanted and moved in 23 days later. i have no horror stories. and when i was considering selling it, the 27 yr old blonde russian realtor lady with big boobs tried everything to sell it quickly. we ended up not selling it, but having her around was fun and good eye candy. another not horror story.
 

rivan

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My wife and I moved up last year; sold two homes (we each had one coming into the marriage) and bought one, and each of the transactions had it's own major drama. It took us 13 months all told. Sold one house, then bought/sold the other two at the same time, and the buy/sell was incredibly stressful, both sales went down to the wire - the buyer for her old house was a 22-year-old with an agent mother and mortgage broker father, talk about stressful. At the end, HIS agent bought my wife and I dinner to celebrate it being over.

I'm glad it's done.
 

huberm

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i bought my first house a couple of years ago. I put offers in on 4 other homes before I found this. Every single one had some kind of weird red tape and the 5th offer (the house I"m in now) was the only one that went through.

There are so many regulations, and so many people involved, there always seems to be some stipulation or problem. But, on the bright side, it eventaully works to your advantage because you are protected from a lot of problems.

Just hang in there, you'll find the right home!
 

richardycc

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looks like its the type of house you are trying to buy, the bargain basement type, these type have the most problem.
 

Kelemvor

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That's why you should use a REALTOR when Buying a house. The seller pays the REALTOR fees so the buyer has nothing to lose. The REALTOR's job is to weed through all the crap and work out all the details and such. There are legal things that you can do when the seller doesn't fulfill their end and things like that which normal people would have no idea about.
 

jcuadrado

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buying a house is extrememly stressful....try to relax and hopefully things will fall in place. Closings are ridiculous...the whole ordeal is traumatizing..
 

Rage187

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pfft, if you think buying a house is stessful, try selling one.

I've bought 3 and sold one and never want to go through the sales process again.
 

Golgatha

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Looked for a few weekends and finally found a home we liked. Made an offer and it was accepted a few days later. Pretty cut and dry. The hardest part was signing and initialing all the paperwork. We went through a Realtor.
 

murphy55d

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Originally posted by: Golgatha
Looked for a few weekends and finally found a home we liked. Made an offer and it was accepted a few days later. Pretty cut and dry. The hardest part was signing and initialing all the paperwork. We went through a Realtor.

That;'s how our process has been so far, except we made a low initial offer(rejected, and countered) and then worked him down a few thousand from his asking. i could not imagine doing this without a realtor.
 

waggy

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Dec 14, 2000
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you can purchase a house out of forclosure (baught the house we are in now that way).

Yes it sucks. no it is not a fun time. the closeing we had was a pain. teh sellers got upset when they found out htey were not getitng as much as they thought (they thought they were getting 10k back. they got 2k back or so). so they wanted to walk away and not sign anything. they even walked out of the room. I mumbled "oh ******" under my breath the lawyer laughed and said not to worry.

the sellers lawyer went out and talked to them and they came back ans signed all the paperwork. but man it was not a fun time. though finally getting everything done and the joy of fixing the house how you want is great!
 

K1052

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hehe...usually not

The last time the developer pushed my closing back a month and a half only 8 days prior to close. This normally wouldn't have been a problem but I signed a lease to renters for my old place that was to start 2 days after I closed on the new one. Sooo....I got to eat the extra moving/storage costs and stay with my dad and his wife in their apt for two months (hidabeds suck btw). To say I was unhappy would have been a gross understatement.
 

slurmsmackenzie

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i always found that doing your research on anything will substantially reduced stressfull situations and better prepare you for the ones that seem unavoidable. if you were able to find two houses you liked in a short time period of time, keep looking for that 45 days...

it's like mark harmon said in summer school:

"then, you see another perfect wave - more perfect than the last, and that's the one you catch."


 

markgm

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I was supposed to close in June, didn't close until September 30th. Every week I was told "next week." It was a pain but it all worked out in the end.
 
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I am settlement agent and I hate most LOs I come across. They are always ****** things up at the table. I love it when they tell me to skip their fees on the HUD-1.
 

boomerang

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I sold Real Estate for a few years nearly 30 years ago. Every deal was a white-knuckler for the Seller, the Buyer and the Agent. I guess some things never change.

What blows me away is to read your story and hear how different the housing market is from where I live.

I'm in a semi-rural area. Nearly all the homes in the area are on a minimum of 2.5 acres. The house to the one side of me has been on the market for over 3 years. This guy wants to retire and move away.

The house on the other side has been for sale for over a year. No one is living there now and I assume the bank has taken it back. The for sale sign changed to an auction sign a few weeks back but is now back to For Sale.

You can't sell anything here. It looks like you can't auction it either.

I've got paperwork from the County telling me my taxable value went up too. What a crock.

Michigan
 

paulxcook

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Did you folks find yourself irrationally hating the person on the other side of the deal? With the first house, I definitely hated the seller/agent. Partly because she was attached to the house and was thus unreasonable. So really, she wasn't a seller/agent, she was a whining owner with an agents license. And she was an idiot. Oh, such an idiot.