Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: Wheezer
If your the father and your "little girl" just sent you a text to let you know she had her cherry busted by some strange dude on a beach......yeah...it's bad.
If your the girl and you were too hot and bothered to make sure the guy wore a rubber and you end up knocked up....yeah it's bad.
so yes, it can be bad depending on whose perspective you are talking about.
But the sex in and of itself isn't bad...unless you're the girl's father of course.
Personally, I think as a father you'd have to be pretty naive to think your little angel wasn't going to have sex with guys at some point in her young adult life and that you would have had conversations with her about practicing safe sex prior to this text message.
Do young girls have sex ...sure they do.
There was a time when fathers married their 13 & 14 year olds of for a cow pig or horse....hell in some parts of the world that still goes on...does that mean that I should think it's ok?
I mean it's their culture....it's been their way of life for hundreds of years right?
Obviously you are not a father....the point is that no real father who gives a shit about their kid really like the idea of his daughter on a beach somewhere bare assed getting boned.
does it happen? sure as hell it does, but it does not mean you have to like it.
[I wouldn't have reacted like he did either. I guess I'd talk to her later and make sure she was being safe, but I wouldn't try and punish her for having responsible sex.
fixed for you.
Drinking and responsible sex do not always go hand in hand.