He's a dumbass stoner, truth be told. Sometimes I feel sorry for him. Other times, he's an inconsiderate bastard, and he pissed me off.
I wanted to pick up my monthly payment today, so I called him at 11:30AM. Made arrangements to stop by, he wanted me to stop by later, so his GF could take a shower. I was like, "This doesn't involve her, she's not going anywhere with me." I finally pulled it out of him that he wanted me to take her or them shopping. How nice of them to tell me that a day ahead of time, so that I could block out some time for them. That's just how inconsiderate they are, of my time, and yet, he had the nerve to read me the riot act, for taking 45 minutes to get to him, even though we didn't specify a time. I took my mom to the senior center, and she went to her bank to get me some money, and I stopped back by my place to use the bathroom. It generally takes me 15 minutes to get to said friend's place.
This is a week AFTER I loan him some money to pay his overdue rent for last month, and even took him to drop it off.
It's like, WTF? If you were really my friend, then the minute I apologized to you for being late (even though we hadn't specified any time, technically), you should have dropped it, rather than rake me over the coals for another 20 minutes on the phone on my way over.