is a deep hug plus double handed back scratch creepy/erotic?

Is it ok to do the back scratch when hugging?

  • yes

  • no

  • depends who it's coming from

  • ok only if you have a boner


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brainhulk

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Really took me by surprise because I wasn't expecting the nail gouge from her. That's not proper hugging protocol right?
 

Markbnj

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Really took me by surprise because I wasn't expecting the nail gouge from her. That's not proper hugging protocol right?

I would say that is a pretty intimate thing to do. In other words, I would do that to my wife, but I can't think of anyone else on the planet I would take that liberty with. So I am going with "creepy" or "erotic" depending on the person who delivered it.
 

OBLAMA2009

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Really took me by surprise because I wasn't expecting the nail gouge from her. That's not proper hugging protocol right?

if they do that to you and theyre a hot chick, you have a right to give them a pervy hug back
 

brainhulk

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I would say that is a pretty intimate thing to do. In other words, I would do that to my wife, but I can't think of anyone else on the planet I would take that liberty with. So I am going with "creepy" or "erotic" depending on the person who delivered it.
As I expected...truly bizarre/interesting turn of events

Is this the really hot red-head from work? WHERE THE **** ARE THE PICS?
No, someone else
 

brainhulk

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We need details!

Eh, I don't want to turn it into a L&R thread. Let's just say it's someone very close to the wifey. And I felt really uncomfortable/aroused afterwards. Like wtf just happened...I wanted to confirm the back scratch was not normal. No more details! Lol
 

dbk

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Scratch is def a weird one..ive gotten hugs from friends wife where she really dug her boobs into my chest but that was prob just in my head..:sly:
 

T9D

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She's leaving her mark on you. I had a girl do that who I banged hard one night. Scratched the crap out of my back. Hurt and left bad marks forever. I realized later, knowing how devious women are, that she was just leaving her calling card in case I banged some other woman.

Edit* I think she knows your wife is cheating on you and she's marking you for hers
 
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T9D

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Of course she may have had a bet going and was checking to see if you were wearing a man bra for your man boobs.
 

TridenT

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I think it really depends on the person and the situation.

If someone had a really nice time with you and then gave you a hug with a little back scratch then no big deal. I think it would just be a way to show some affection in a warm-hearted way.

That said, I've hugged a lot of people and most of them are hippies. So, I am used to these kinds of hugs. In fact, I kind of resent any hug that is not a really good hug. I am like, "What am I? A cheap hug thrill? Something to just get your hug fix real fast? NO! I AM A HUMAN BEING AND DESERVE A NICE HUG!" But, whatever.

I'm just so not into shitty hugs...
 

Rakehellion

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I usually to the back scratch because the only people I hug are women and gay men and none of them are so insecure that they'd have to make a thread about hugging protocol.
 

leper84

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I pick #4, I'd go so far as to say you have a responsibility to get a boner.

She isn't stupid, going for a deep hug and rubbing her body on you AND scratching your back is something she knows is intimate and will turn any dude on. Don't let her get away with mindfucking you. Get a raging hard boner and really dig it in during the deep hug she wanted and mind fuck her right back.

Whats she gonna say to anyone, she tried to turn you and it worked?