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Infidelity/Cheating Poll

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When I first started dating my now wife, I took a trip to Canada with a bunch of friends. I got sloppy drunk and passed out... woke up to a girl kissing me and grabing on my johnson. I pushed her away, but I still felt dirty because of it.

In response though, no... I think relationships define how one respects or feels about another. Just because someone cheated a while ago while in a different relationship, doesnt mean it's going to happen again.
 
Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
It's all about love and understanding. If you truly loved each other, then you would forgive.
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If you truly loved each other you wouldn't be cheating in the first place.
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But things happen and you hope that your partner understands. It's all about love anyways.
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You drunk already this morning or is my sarcasm meter broken?
 
Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
It's all about love and understanding. If you truly loved each other, then you would forgive.
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If you truly loved each other you wouldn't be cheating in the first place.
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But things happen and you hope that your partner understands. It's all about love anyways.
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things shouldnt happen if you really love/respect someone.

if you have an open relationship, fine, but if its agreeed that you wont see other people romantically it just shows that you really dont love someone enough to even give them teh same respect they are giving you.
 
I'll go out on a limb here for a minute. I've never cheated before but sometimes I wonder does sex always have to feelings wrapped up with it? I mean everything thats good about life involves variety, we don't eat the same foods, talk to only one person, only listen to one song, watch one TV program/movie, wear the same clothes, etc.. Personally I think its possible to love one person but have a physical relationship with someone else. Of course this kind of thing is basically frowned upon in our society so I would never actually do it, but I think if church and religion did'nt influence our society so much this would be more common place.
 
Originally posted by: Arkitech
I'll go out on a limb here for a minute. I've never cheated before but sometimes I wonder does sex always have to feelings wrapped up with it? I mean everything thats good about life involves variety, we don't eat the same foods, talk to only one person, only listen to one song, watch one TV program/movie, wear the same clothes, etc.. Personally I think its possible to love one person but have a physical relationship with someone else. Of course this kind of thing is basically frowned upon in our society so I would never actually do it, but I think if church and religion did'nt influence our society so much this would be more common place.
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that makes perfect sense, that?s why you do that BEFORE YOU GET IN A FUSKING RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!! let alone get engaged

being in a relationship/ being married/engaged means you agree that you don?t want any more variety
 
Originally posted by: Electric Amish
Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
Originally posted by: Electric Amish
Depends on what you mean by "cheating"
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For you, it means running a non M$ OS/browser, software😉
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I think you have me confused with Ameesh 😉
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Oops.

Anyway, that's why I included an open ended answer. I seem to remember your definition is a bit dirrerent from the mean/median one😀
 
I know some chronic cheaters, but overall, I think people can change.

I cheated on someone once, but it was definitely a one-time thing. I'd never want to put myself through that mess again.
 
Originally posted by: Modeps
When I first started dating my now wife, I took a trip to Canada with a bunch of friends. I got sloppy drunk and passed out... woke up to a girl kissing me and grabing on my johnson. I pushed her away, but I still felt dirty because of it.

In response though, no... I think relationships define how one respects or feels about another. Just because someone cheated a while ago while in a different relationship, doesnt mean it's going to happen again.
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I think even in the same relationship it could work....it all depends on the surrounding situation and what drove the act. People do change and if enough motivation is there to do so then change will occur.
 
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
It's all about love and understanding. If you truly loved each other, then you would forgive.
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If you truly loved each other you wouldn't be cheating in the first place.
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Ah, right this human construct called love overpowers the human instinct of reproduction.

No matter how much you love someone, sex with the same person forever gets boring.
 
Originally posted by: SampSon
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
It's all about love and understanding. If you truly loved each other, then you would forgive.
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If you truly loved each other you wouldn't be cheating in the first place.
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Ah, right this human construct called love overpowers the human instinct of reproduction.

No matter how much you love someone, sex with the same person forever gets boring.
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Perhaps if you wore a glove or a ring it would feel like a different hand. 🙂
 
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