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Infidelity/Cheating Poll

Pliablemoose

Pliablemoose

Lifer
I've always felt "Once a cheater, always a cheater" & it seems to hav been proven watching other couples/relationships.

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i think that if someone really loved me they wouldnt cheat on me so i would break up with them NO MATTER WHAT.
 
My vote would be for, it's not that simple. I'd like to think I believe in second chances, and am above vulgar, reactive emotions. I know I'm not, but I'd like to believe so anyways.
 
Originally posted by: eakers
i think that if someone really loved me they wouldnt cheat on me so i would break up with them NO MATTER WHAT.
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Exactly,and if he suddenly love another woman at the sametime for 5 minutes, samething.
 
I don't think it's as simple as yes/no. A lot of factors come into play such as age, how long in the relationship, drugs/alcohol involved, etc.
 
to me it's not because i believe that once she cheated she will absolutely cheat again, it's just that once is one too many.
 
With enough determination, anybody can change. So I think a cheater can amend their habits if they really want to.

That's why I voted for Skoorb.
 
Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
It's all about love and understanding. If you truly loved each other, then you would forgive.
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If you truly loved each other you wouldn't be cheating in the first place.
 
heheh i was just going to post something like this

personally what i don?t understand is how people can be so unfaithful, i mean it aint that fusking had to just fusk you BF or GF, WTF is wrong with people today that they feel the need to sleep with anything with a pulse? girls will screw the first guy that pay attention to them, and the same with men, its disgusting,
si had a GF cheat on me, i could have cared less about the dude, but i really wanted to kill her, im gone for 2 weeks and she couldn?t keep her legs shut, not the dude fault, he was just in the wrong place when the stupid horny b!tch couldn?t control herself,

and men are just as bad, I?ve never cheated on anyone, never will. but I have friends that have, and it disturbs me that they do it over and over again and don?t even realize WTF they are doing, and think there is nothing wrong with it, hell one of my friends was carrying on 3 relationships at the same time, fusking all of them, that had just about everyone that knew him pissed off, till I got drunk and fired off a few emails, he didn?t talk to us for a few days but finally realized we were right

anyway, men suck, and women suck even more, is there some kind of mental disorder that 80% of the people out there have that cant make them be faithful?
 
Originally posted by: Shelly21
Originally posted by: eakers
i think that if someone really loved me they wouldnt cheat on me so i would break up with them NO MATTER WHAT.
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Exactly,and if he suddenly love another woman at the sametime for 5 minutes, samething.
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it's not love, it's lust and it's not the same thing.
 
Yes. One of my parents cheated, was forgiven, and continued to do so multiple times.

But they still lasted 26 years together. Then again, forgiveness in marriage is one thing, but in the dating process, it's another.
 
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
It's all about love and understanding. If you truly loved each other, then you would forgive.
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If you truly loved each other you wouldn't be cheating in the first place.
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But things happen and you hope that your partner understands. It's all about love anyways.
 
Copy/paste from Red's thread

One of my closest friends has cheated on her husband twice (both times before marriage.) She too, has talked about the lack of romance in their relationship. (They've been together about 9 years). He knows about both times she's cheated, but took her back anyways. My GF and I have a running bet as to how long before she cheats again.
 
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