Baasha: Such incredible bias against a country that has done no harm to others. It baffles the mind as to how people can be so vicious in their hatred of India.
M: What does it matter? You can never be harmed by what people think of India. You are not an Indian, you are a human being who has attached his ego to India. Some of the great teachers of India taught me non attachment to things. I am not an American in ego even though I was born here and lived here all my life and love my country for its land and its people. When you slander the West as you have in defense of India, it doesn't bother me. You can't touch my love for my country by disrespecting it. I know probably better than you do, the faults we have. You are a fanatic and a believer in a culture that have fast beauty and infinite imperfections like other place. And it is because you have no real internal self respect. You are Indian so anything that criticizes India criticizes you. You are attached to the wheel of Karma.
B: The main problem here is the use of the term 'rape culture.' Although it is commonly used in feminist literature, the layman's definition would be tantamount to painting an entire culture with a broad brush.
M: What do you care that people pick up such brushes. You are not a culture, you are a person. You either defend rape or you do not. You look at your culture and see if there is an excessive amount of rape going on and whether the culture is reacting defensively and trying to deny it, or worse, justify it. What difference does it make what culture you live in. Evil is evil and one does not hide from it because of ones ego.
B: The documentary, and the overall overemphasis on rapes in India for the past few years is an attack on India and Indian men. A rape is equated to patriarchy, Indian "culture" and subliminally, Hinduism.
M: What do you care what it is equated to? The only question is whether the equation is correct. If Hinduism supports rape than Hinduism isn't a good thing. Raping people is wrong. If you defend your culture and it defends the practice of rape than you support evil. Documentaries are a good way for a culture to begin to address evil.
B: This common tactic, otherwise known as atrocity literature, is used as a tool to enable and embolden the evangelical mafia.
M: That is also exactly how a bigot would see it, somebody who has their ego attached to their culture, such that any criticism of the culture is an attack on them. You are not a culture. You can't be harmed by any attack on it.
B: This piece by Sankrant Sanu gives FACTS on rape as well as the ulterior motive behind the loud howling by anti-Indians world-over:
Rape in India - Why it becomes a worldwide story
M: The Germans had many people supporting Hitler. There are bigots everywhere justifying every ego identification under the sun. The ego is a delusion, a false self created to bask in the glory of some external delusion that purports to fill its believers with some sort of special glory. But you are only just another human being who thinks he or she needs a crutch to lean on.
B: It is ultimately to shame the head of the household, mainly men in India, and to break the strong family system that has proved to be the bedrock of Indian society for millenia.
M: Who cares. My ancestors used to go deep into caves paint horses and things. Nobody now even knows what it was about. What you call bedrock is quicksand. Whatever it is will pass. What has always been and will remain is the human self, the infinite capacity to be anything. You just confused yourself with the thing you adapted to. In America, had you grown up in the South, you would likely be one of the fools here bashing India.
B: Once women who mistake 'rights' to mean unbridled recklessness - ie going partying and being promiscuous - the family system will start to wither and weaken like it has in much of the West.
M: Every culture is infected with self hate and every new freedom releases all that the suppression of that freedom has bottled up. India is in upheaval over rape because patriarchal cultures suppress women and the whole world is coming to see that's evil. All the ego attachment men have to their royal station in a patriarchal society will leak out as violence toward change as the bonds that bind women weaken. But a better world is coming for women everywhere. Patriarchy is a disease.
B: What is much more ridiculous is the hypocrisy of the West in lecturing India about women's safety, women's freedom etc.
M: We are at a different place on the curve. You are just beginning. Your hell is still largely repressed, but ours has been exposed.
B: The rape culture in the West is FAR WORSE than it is in India. Their singling out India on rape cases is akin to Nazi Germany finding fault with racism among Jews.
M: What do you care? You are not an Indian, you are a person. You can't be touched by criticism of a culture. We in the West have a lot of work to do. We have a patriarchal culture too. We have a lot of bigoted assholes here, just like in India. I can see it because I don't need to defend my culture. My culture is my culture and my job in it is to make it the best culture I can. Your opinion of my culture doesn't bother me.
B: Furthermore India, unequivocally, has the best culture in the world - specifically, Hindu culture.
30 Famous Quotes about India
Some great ones here:
M: I find it interesting that the people who think one culture is superior to others are usually always of the culture. This need to feel like you're the best, if you but knew it, comes from feeling inferior and needing that kind of crutch. You should be asking yourself why you actually feel inferior. If you knew your culture wouldn't matter so much and you wouldn't find yourself in these kinds of debates making a gigantic bigot of yourself. Every culture has its richness and its shit and everyone of them will pass away to be replaced and it's happening day by day. But if you want to board the train that goes nowhere, you'll have to fight our conservative brain defectives here in America for a seat.