- Jun 2, 2000
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I have know said girl since we were in college several years ago. We now live in the same city and frequent the same bars. I saw her for the first time since our college days towards the end of last year at one of the local bars. Well, we talked and caught up on each other's life.
I was interested in her and called her a few days later to ask her out. Unfortunately, she was seeing someone at the time. No big deal to me, and I soon moved on to bigger and better things. However, I always made it a point to go up to her in the bar to say hello and whatnot.
About a month ago, as she was leaving the bar she came over to my table and told me to call her. I didn't waste any time and called her the following night. This marks the beginning of a very physical relationship.
We have a great time over the next few weeks and it seems that we are compatible and its easy to talk. However, once the newness wears off, I can tell that "something" is wrong with her. She basically switches into mode where she starts to ignore me.
Well, this continues on for a few days until I finally take the hint. I ask her if something is wrong, and of course, she says no. After questioning a friend of hers, I find out that she really justs wants me to fade away in the sunset.
It's been two weeks and I have not heard anything from this girl. I am not mad that she "rejected" me, as quite frankly, it was just a casual sex relationship anyway. However, I am taken back by the fact that she has not bothered to tell me herself. How hard is it to tell someone you want to be friends?
It's just a matter of time before I see her hanging out. How would you handle the situation? I would like to remain friends with her, but a part of me says to ignore her just as she as done me. Then again, a part of me says to continue being my friendly self....nothing wrong with some more casual sex.......and it shows I am bigger person.
I was interested in her and called her a few days later to ask her out. Unfortunately, she was seeing someone at the time. No big deal to me, and I soon moved on to bigger and better things. However, I always made it a point to go up to her in the bar to say hello and whatnot.
About a month ago, as she was leaving the bar she came over to my table and told me to call her. I didn't waste any time and called her the following night. This marks the beginning of a very physical relationship.
We have a great time over the next few weeks and it seems that we are compatible and its easy to talk. However, once the newness wears off, I can tell that "something" is wrong with her. She basically switches into mode where she starts to ignore me.
Well, this continues on for a few days until I finally take the hint. I ask her if something is wrong, and of course, she says no. After questioning a friend of hers, I find out that she really justs wants me to fade away in the sunset.
It's been two weeks and I have not heard anything from this girl. I am not mad that she "rejected" me, as quite frankly, it was just a casual sex relationship anyway. However, I am taken back by the fact that she has not bothered to tell me herself. How hard is it to tell someone you want to be friends?
It's just a matter of time before I see her hanging out. How would you handle the situation? I would like to remain friends with her, but a part of me says to ignore her just as she as done me. Then again, a part of me says to continue being my friendly self....nothing wrong with some more casual sex....
...and it shows I am bigger person.
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