I'm tired and im bleh

Feb 19, 2001
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maybe it should be a yagt but whatever

Got back from hanging out with the ex. This is the 2nd time we've gone clubbing in the past week (with a group of other people) and she was dancing real close with this one guy again...

He would disappear and she woudl too and I would have to tell myself to stop looking for her and focus on the girl in front of me. Didn't get much dancing in tonight maybe because I wasn't drunk.

Anyways, on our way out she gets a call from that guy she was dancing with and after a little talk they she goes bye. She's walking behind me who is behind the rest of the group. She slows down to a really slow sad walk. I pretend to ignore her and keep walking until I realize that I'm like 50 ft behind the main group and she's another 100ft behind me with her eyes down. I walk back to her and she holds onto me and I walk her home.

After the longest time of sitting at the table and just talking, her roommate leaves and she asks "Do you think we had a clean breakup?"

blah blah.. then she starts asking about what she should do now with a guy. She didnt' say who, and it sounded like she wanted to hide the identity, but I'm pretty sure it's the guy she was dancing with (I kinda know him).

We sat around and talked for like 3 hours maybe? I didn't feel like walking home at that point but I did anyways. Walked back and I'm soaked wet. No umbrella. GG money.

Anyways, I just feel a little jealous once in a while. I guess that kinda sucks =(
 

sswingle

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Mar 2, 2000
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So you can dance with another girl but it is a big deal if she dances with another guy?

Wait...you broke up?
 

jman19

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Nov 3, 2000
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Why the hell are you hanging out with your ex? :confused:

You go to clubs with here where she'll be dancing with other guys? Talk about a recipe for disaster. Save yourself the trouble and stop seeing her.
 

moshquerade

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Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: jman19
Why the hell are you hanging out with your ex? :confused:

You go to clubs with here where she'll be dancing with other guys? Talk about a recipe for disaster. Save yourself the trouble and stop seeing her.
good advice.

stop torturing yourself OP by hanging out with someone you haven't got over, but she has gotten over you.

 

patentman

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This is why I say that you can't be friends with an ex. Every ex I've had that I've tried to be friends with did this same crap to me. If you are broken up, she should't be dumping her emotional gabage on you. IMO it is patently unfair and inconsiderate for a woman to break up with you and then ASK you what she should do about the next guy she wants to bang.
 

clamum

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Feb 13, 2003
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Originally posted by: DLeRium
maybe it should be a yagt but whatever

Got back from hanging out with the ex. This is the 2nd time we've gone clubbing in the past week (with a group of other people) and she was dancing real close with this one guy again...

He would disappear and she woudl too and I would have to tell myself to stop looking for her and focus on the girl in front of me. Didn't get much dancing in tonight maybe because I wasn't drunk.

Anyways, on our way out she gets a call from that guy she was dancing with and after a little talk they she goes bye. She's walking behind me who is behind the rest of the group. She slows down to a really slow sad walk. I pretend to ignore her and keep walking until I realize that I'm like 50 ft behind the main group and she's another 100ft behind me with her eyes down. I walk back to her and she holds onto me and I walk her home.

After the longest time of sitting at the table and just talking, her roommate leaves and she asks "Do you think we had a clean breakup?"

blah blah.. then she starts asking about what she should do now with a guy. She didnt' say who, and it sounded like she wanted to hide the identity, but I'm pretty sure it's the guy she was dancing with (I kinda know him).

We sat around and talked for like 3 hours maybe? I didn't feel like walking home at that point but I did anyways. Walked back and I'm soaked wet. No umbrella. GG money.

Anyways, I just feel a little jealous once in a while. I guess that kinda sucks =(

Good game money? Hahah :confused:
 

jlbenedict

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Jul 10, 2005
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An "EX" is an "EX" for a reason. Never try to rekindle old flames; it will only lead to more heartbreak and possibly a disaster.
 

pontifex

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Dec 5, 2000
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you broke up. you shouldn't be jealous or worrying about what she does.

did you break it off or did she? if you, then thats even more fvcked up.