Living in the country is great, but get a real job there locally while you learn to cope. That growing your own food stuff is cool, but learning how takes a while. Most country people only have gardens as a backup/hobby. Meet people, be friendly but low key, keep your mouth shut and ears open. If you are way out in the sticks, don't be too articulate, but very gradually adopt the speech patterns and accent of the area without overdoing it. A little diplomacy will get you very far.