I'm mad at my GF, What should I do?

[SCSIfreek]

Couple months ago, we got a invitation for her good friend's wedding in Hawaii. So we were planning to take the weekends off and travel to Hawaii. As you know airfare cost roughly around $500+ each person round trip. A month ago, she sugguested that instead of the two of us going, she'll go by herself so we could save $500 instead of spending the $1000, I agreed. Just last week, we saw airfare prices came down to $350 price range and I asked If she wanted to me go with her <---at that time she said of course and Insisted I should go. Then last night while online, I was checking up on the airfares again, suddenly she said I shouldn't go with her. er..... I was a little pissed off at that point so I gave her the stink eye look and Ignored her . She then starts to cry..... This morning I'm still tickoff b/c of what had happened last night(feels weird). What should I do?

 

[silverpig]

Let her go to Hawaii, you have a huge drink fest with your buddies at your house while she's gone... Make her come back to you with a major hangover and the house a mess... Then make her clean it up... That oughta learn her

 

[JeffreyLebowski]

Don't let her pull that, "I'm a crying girl, feel bad for me" crap. Say listen up woman, I'm going to Hawaii with you if I have to pimp you out in the streets to make money.

 

[fastz28]

Women like to change their minds a lot. Just ignor her and buy your ticket. If she doesn't want you to go to the wedding, fine, go to Hawaii anyways and enjoy a nice vacation. Maybe you can find her replacement.

 

[pyonir]

take naked pics of her and plaster them all over the internet.


j/k i don't know man. i'd probably would just talk to her about it. find out why she thinks she should go alone. don't you trust her? make a plan to do something special together as soon as she gets back.

 

[Maverick]

<< Don't let her pull that, "I'm a crying girl, feel bad for me" crap. >>



I hate that bs...definitely don't let the crying affect you. It may make you feel like an a-hole at first, but its for your own sanity.

 

[glen]

she feels guilty about something

 

[StormRider]

Refuse to have sex with her. That tactic always works with women.

 

[DevilsAdvocate]

It's her friend. Let her go alone if that is what she wants to do.

Take the $350 you saved and have an insanely good time with your buds.

 

[KennyTheGreat]

hmm
then don't go at all
lol

 

[SCSIfreek]

she feels guilty about something hmmm....... I feel somethings up <--- just some gut feeling I have.


DAmn I have a major headache now!!! Damn DAMN DAMN!!!

 

[Croton]

take the money u save and get a new video card.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Try as hard as possible to swallow any anger/malice you have, and talk to her. You'll be happy later when you look back and see that it really was worth talking things out instead of not talking or whatever. Make sure that you two understand that things you say aren't going to necessarily go over easy, though, during the convo. Make sure that you two can come to a conclusion, even if it's agreeing not to agree.

I mean, good grief man. If she's your girl and you're planning a vacation with her, why on earth would she go alone? Save up so you both can go. The thing about her going alone is really quite confusing to me

nik

 

[Gibson486]

Face it, the reason why you want to go is because you want to be there with her. You don't want a cabanna (SP?) boy tanning her body. it's a jelously/trust factor. Everyone has it, it's just that some act on it. Let her go by her self and enjoy the bed all to your self!

 

[lovebuggirl]

why does she want to go to hawaii by herself, that's what you really need to ask yourself

 

[JeffreyLebowski]

Maybe she's bought a one way ticket

 

[Chrono]

that is the truth really
why would she go alone?

Seems like you two have some talking to do. You sem to have a higher interest level than she does. Weird. But sorry to say though.

 

[SCSIfreek]

her reasoning was to save that $500+ But money isnt really a problem for me.

 

[glen]

Sorry about your GF.
With time, it will work it self out.
have faith.
Also, did you get my PM about the Lee Kum Kee brocollie sauce?

 

[shiner]

It's simple....there's going to be an ex boyfriend there and she just found out about it.......she's wanting to do him so of course you can't go with her. Take a pre-emptive strike and do one of your ex's tonight.

 

[Koing]

I really can't see why shes stressing out and *crying* over such a matter. Must have something behind ir or does she cry quite a bit?

 

[IJump]

Go to Hawaii, let her go to the wedding while you go to the beach....

 

[b0mbrman]

<< Refuse to have sex with her. That tactic always works with women. >>


LOL! And you still have the opportunity to be the first guy in history to actually go through with it

 

[neovan]

<< she feels guilty about something >>



I agree...why don't you....let her go by herself...but then buy another ticket for yourself and "surprise" her by showing up in HAWAII

 

[Siddhartha]

I vote for talking to her and finding out what is going on. In the long run communication is better than being resentful and making her pay in some way.