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Tiamat

Lifer
Nov 25, 2003
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Usually I dont even think about it unless she was very adamant about telling me she was going to call me.

Now, if she tells me to call her, and I forget to by accident, she reminds me about it the next day, but over the years, she has calmed down about this.
 

thomsbrain

Lifer
Dec 4, 2001
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your gf is definitely either dead or devouring 5 gigantic penises right now (2 for the ears). that's the ONLY logical explanation for her not calling you on time.
 

Bryophyte

Lifer
Apr 25, 2001
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You're the needy, insecure boy who wondered last week whether you should break up with her because she didn't feel like having sex with you on ONE occasion, right?
 

thegimp03

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Jul 5, 2004
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Originally posted by: thomsbrain
your gf is definitely either dead or devouring 5 gigantic penises right now (2 for the ears). that's the ONLY logical explanation for her not calling you on time.

Hahahaha
 

db

Lifer
Dec 6, 1999
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"things were so good and easy before, but I just keep having doubts."

The point is, it was good BEFORE. Apparently it's not good now, and that's all that matters. Time to exit your relationship. You learn by doing--it won't be the end of the world if you exit. But it will be bad for you if you don't.

edit: you are having doubts NOW b/c it's the reality of the situation slapping you in the head, but you don't want to accept it for some reason. So it's not working out--time to move on. That's what dating is for: learning about compatibility. For some unknown reason, some people absolutely fear the ending of a relationship. Knowing that it's wrong is a blessing, but only if you end it.

Believe me, not ending a relationship that is wrong will lead to nothing but misery and anguish.

Additionally, not ending it when you should makes you extremely vulnerable to manipulation and control.
 

imported_Baloo

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Feb 2, 2006
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Originally posted by: Krazy4Real
I think you're just delaying the inevitable. She left you for a reason, and I think you know what. Things didn't work out so she came back to you. You realize things aren't working out, so why stay with her. Find somebody that is genuinely interested in you, and cares about you. That's the only way you'll find true happiness. You're not worth her time.

just a minor correction
 

xtknight

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Oct 15, 2004
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Forget her then, there's something better out there, guaranteed or your money back. Just make sure you're the best thing since sliced bread and you edit you posts a lot (like me).
 

FFactory0x

Diamond Member
Aug 8, 2001
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Get rid of her. Take it as a god send. I mean you have doubts now, do you think they are going to get any better over time!

I mean you most likely arent going to marry thing girl so move on. The worst relationships are when young people breakup and get back together and its usually the male holding onto hope that things will get better like they were before and they NEVER DO. Ive seen it countless times.

Seriously you don't want a relationship or girl thats a project as you should be out having fun and not having to spend countless hours worrying and trying to fix ****** that aint ever getting fixed
 

Chrono

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Jan 2, 2001
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i used to be in your predicament. i'm now a whole lot better off without her since we've broken up. so do it and break up with her. lol.
 

Oceandevi

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Jan 20, 2006
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sorry man, we crushed her phone between our hugely fat bodies. all the thrusting and monkey love. she has a mean grip....
 

FFactory0x

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Aug 8, 2001
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On a side note, if my GF says she will call me later in the night and doesnt, I could care less. I just go on with my night. If it happened everyday though things would be different. I might not be able to control the rage within anymore