If your boss was gay, how would you deal with it?

[her209]

Originally posted by: herbiehancock

Originally posted by: her209

Originally posted by: fanerman91
Deal with it? What's there to deal with?

Well, would you have any problems taking orders from a gay person?

What if one of your co-workers is also gay and he recieves a promotion before you? Would you call it special treatment?

This is just flamebait...........pure and simple.

So should we just silence anyone who doesn't agree with our point of view? That's not going to persuade people and only breeds resentment.

Would it be anymore "flamebait" if I had said, "If you were gay, your boss is straight, and your co-worker (who is also straight) got a promotion before you did?"

 

[Balt]

Originally posted by: her209

Originally posted by: herbiehancock

Originally posted by: her209

Originally posted by: fanerman91
Deal with it? What's there to deal with?

Well, would you have any problems taking orders from a gay person?

What if one of your co-workers is also gay and he recieves a promotion before you? Would you call it special treatment?

This is just flamebait...........pure and simple.

So should we just silence anyone who doesn't agree with our point of view? That's not going to persuade people and only breeds resentment.

Would it be anymore "flamebait" if I had said, "If you were gay, your boss is straight, and your co-worker (who is also straight) got a promotion before you did?"

Silence, no. Ridicule, yes.

 

[LookingGlass]

My morning job, my boss is gay, so is the general manager. They are as nice as can be, they don't look gay, especially my boss. The general manager is great, he's funnier en hell, has a great sense of humor and is sarcastic, like me. To generalize is stupid, done all the time, but, I've learned, don't judge a book by it's cover.

Gay, who cares!

 

[Babbles]

Why would there be anything to deal with?

 

[CellarDoor]

Originally posted by: Orsorum
Why would this ever be an issue? Sexual orientation has nothing to do with someone's ability as a manager or as a professional.

 

[Inspector Jihad]

its kinda suprising that many people add 'unless he hit on me'. Ofcourse you shouldnt be harassed like that, but do you think that women who work under men think like that all the time? I guess what i'm trying to say is that the likelyhood of a gay boss hitting on a guy is probably the same as a straight boss hitting on a woman. Either way,straight or gay, that person isnt right for the job if they abuse this position like that.

 

[Eli]

My boss is gay. Lesbian actually.

She's cool as hell.

 

[Lumathix]

by not caring who he/she chooses to sleep with?

 

[outerheaven]

Originally posted by: Lumathix
by not caring who he/she chooses to sleep with?

 

[SophalotJack]

Originally posted by: her209

Originally posted by: waggy
why would it matter? unless he hits on me or such. otherwise its no big deal.

But would you psychoanalyze everything he says to you?

Only unless I was that insecure about myself and the destruction of the free world via a gay apocalyto storm.

Some people say a meteor killed the dinosaurs, some say disease.... We alllll know what really killed the dinosaurs (regardless of what "scientists" say).

It was the gays.




btw, does your handle mean that you are your SO's 209th?
If so... she's probably banged some gay dudes pre-closet popping. So in that case, you had sex with a gay.

 

[Steve]

I don't see what the issue is.

My first sysadmin was gay. Cool guy, one of my references.

 

[slackerinabox]

My boss at my last job was gay and I volunteer the gay/lesbian center - I'm pretty sure my boss there is gay too What the hell difference does it make? I hated my gay boss as much as I hated my straight bosses! Actually, he always gave out the coolest holiday gifts to his staff, he had excellent taste. Gave me a $300 dolce wallet and gave the graphic design people some very swank stuff too.. yep.

 

[Kalessian]

wow, some of you guys are really quick to say it's not an issue. and you seem desperate to ridicule the OP for asking a reasonable question. are you guys insecure or just uber hardcore about being passionate (guess one doesn't preclude the other)?

yes, it shouldn't matter. but most people don't think logically, or don't think at all, and it matters to them. in that way our society can be really complicated.

for example, if he's the only gay person in the building, he might feel that he is the "ambassador of the gays to the straights" and others might feel that way as well. that can put a lot of pressure on people. my advice would be to be yourself. or maybe someone else that's more hip.

 

[Safeway]

Originally posted by: Kalessian
wow, some of you guys are really quick to say it's not an issue. and you seem desperate to ridicule the OP for asking a reasonable question. are you guys insecure or just uber hardcore about being passionate (guess one doesn't preclude the other)?

yes, it shouldn't matter. but most people don't think logically, or don't think at all, and it matters to them. in that way our society can be really complicated.

for example, if he's the only gay person in the building, he might feel that he is the "ambassador of the gays to the straights" and others might feel that way as well. that can put a lot of pressure on people. my advice would be to be yourself. or maybe someone else that's more hip.

No, I don't feel that it was a reasonable question. The OP is basically asking if he should iscriminate based on sexual orientation.

 

[her209]

Originally posted by: SophalotJack
btw, does your handle mean that you are your SO's 209th?
If so... she's probably banged some gay dudes pre-closet popping. So in that case, you had sex with a gay.

Oh man, you must think you're so clever to come up with that insult.

 

[her209]

Originally posted by: Safeway
No, I don't feel that it was a reasonable question. The OP is basically asking if he should iscriminate based on sexual orientation.

My gay boss was two employers past. I didn't have a problem then.

 

[SophalotJack]

Originally posted by: her209

Originally posted by: Safeway
No, I don't feel that it was a reasonable question. The OP is basically asking if he should iscriminate based on sexual orientation.

My gay boss was two employers past. I didn't have a problem then.

But you do have a problem with it now.

You might be just realizing your attraction to men. Not an insult... but a reality.

Being constantly exposed to a gay man (that has some appeal to him) may be what is causing you to question yourself now. You have a problem with it. You might use the excuse that it is gross.... but straight people do a lot nastier things than anal probing.

Keep us updated on when you're finished cranking the shaft (no pun intended) on your jack-in-the-closet (you) chapter of life.

 

[jman19]

Originally posted by: Lonyo

Originally posted by: jman19

Originally posted by: OOBradm

Originally posted by: BUrassler

Originally posted by: her209

Originally posted by: fanerman91
Deal with it? What's there to deal with?

Well, would you have any problems taking orders from a gay person?

What if one of your co-workers is also gay and he recieves a promotion before you? Would you call it special treatment?

WOW

QFT, the fact that one's boss is gay should be a mute point.
Unless the boss in question starts doing things like quoted above, but then its the boss that is making it an issue.

Um, wtf is a "mute" point

It's something he should make, by not saying anything next time until he takes some English classes.

:laugh:

 

[George P Burdell]

Originally posted by: waggy
why would it matter? unless he hits on me or such. otherwise its no big deal.

 

[thomsbrain]

why is this even a question? this is like asking, "if your boss has a dog, how would you deal with it?" WTF are you even talking about?

 

[randomlinh]

wow... just... wow.

 

[Sqube]

What is there to deal with?

This is ridiculous.

 

[Rumpltzer]

Deal with what??

I've had two bosses/supervisors who were overtly homosexual. As I think about it, my first boss may have also been a lesbian (not like the ones you see in pr0n)... never really thought too much about it.


I asked a lot of questions when I was dating a lesbian, but I got use to it....

 

[Gooberlx2]

Unless he's trying to grab on my junk, why should I care?

 

[Rubycon]

grow up