If you just met a girl

[Sex Smurf]

Originally posted by: Aimster
Her situation:

Made all Fs in 4-year college.
Wants money to go to community college. She is suicidal because she is flunking out of college and is trying hard to get another chance. Her second chance is going to community college and forgetting about university.

Has no credit and if she has any credit it is screwed up.
Has no family to get the money from.

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No I'm not going to give her the money. I'm asking because if I leave her alone maybe some other dude will help her out and not me. That's why I was wondering if guys do this kind of crap for girls.

I guess not. So she is SOL. Maybe she'll end up with a sucker who will pay her bills. I know there are guys like that out there. None will admit it, but for ass a lot of guys will do stupid stuff.

Don't think finishing community college will help this one. Stay away from her.

Introduce her to stripping.

 

[PHiuR]

Originally posted by: Aimster
Her situation:

Made all Fs in 4-year college.
Wants money to go to community college. She is suicidal because she is flunking out of college and is trying hard to get another chance. Her second chance is going to community college and forgetting about university.

Has no credit and if she has any credit it is screwed up.
Has no family to get the money from.

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No I'm not going to give her the money. I'm asking because if I leave her alone maybe some other dude will help her out and not me. That's why I was wondering if guys do this kind of crap for girls.

I guess not. So she is SOL. Maybe she'll end up with a sucker who will pay her bills. I know there are guys like that out there. None will admit it, but for ass a lot of guys will do stupid stuff.

okay...ALL F's...

i don't know why im coming back to check this thread...

but you do know that not everyone is made for college right?
i'm sure theres a job out there that she will enjoy/ be right for that does not require a college degree.

 

[alkemyst]

how many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie roll lollipop?

the world may never know....but for the low introductory rate of a semester hour per week, let's find out.

 

[pulse8]

Originally posted by: Aimster
Her situation:

Made all Fs in 4-year college.
Wants money to go to community college. She is suicidal because she is flunking out of college and is trying hard to get another chance. Her second chance is going to community college and forgetting about university.

Has no credit and if she has any credit it is screwed up.
Has no family to get the money from.

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No I'm not going to give her the money. I'm asking because if I leave her alone maybe some other dude will help her out and not me. That's why I was wondering if guys do this kind of crap for girls.

I guess not. So she is SOL. Maybe she'll end up with a sucker who will pay her bills. I know there are guys like that out there. None will admit it, but for ass a lot of guys will do stupid stuff.

Sounds like you found a real winner there.

Dump her. She's not responsible enough to go to school or pay her bills on time. She's either stupid or doesn't care and either way it's not healthy to be in a relationship with that kind of person.

Dump her immediately.









Unless she swallows. Then hang onto her until some other joker picks her up and buys her stuff.

 

[Ryuson99]

Originally posted by: pulse8

Originally posted by: Ryuson99
Aimster is seems to me that you're just looking for somebody to agree with you, but this bitch is a gold-digger aint no one here going to tell you to pay for her. She has NO CREDIT for a reason.

To be fair, he never said that the girl asked him for the money. He just asked if he should offer the money to her or not.

Fair enough.

Originally posted by: Aimster
Her situation:

Made all Fs in 4-year college.
Wants money to go to community college. She is suicidal because she is flunking out of college and is trying hard to get another chance. Her second chance is going to community college and forgetting about university.

Has no credit and if she has any credit it is screwed up.
Has no family to get the money from.

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No I'm not going to give her the money. I'm asking because if I leave her alone maybe some other dude will help her out and not me. That's why I was wondering if guys do this kind of crap for girls.

I guess not. So she is SOL. Maybe she'll end up with a sucker who will pay her bills. I know there are guys like that out there. None will admit it, but for ass a lot of guys will do stupid stuff.

I see so you should just blaze it and leave it. This girl probably won't even spend the money for school, and she is playing you by making you think shes suicidal in order to try to sucker you into the money.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Aimster
She works, but makes $8.50 an hour.

School + books = $thousands

loan her the money or tell her too bad?

chances of her paying you back are going to be slim to none since she only makes $300-400/month and she uses that for her own personal expenses (food, etc).

Dump her for a girl who's got her sh!t together.

 

[arcenite]

How do you not qualify for a student loan? I thought if you were a student, you qualified?

 

[Kadarin]

Heh.. I posted, and then kept on reading, and it just gets worse and worse. Aimster, wtf are you thinking?

 

[FrustratedUser]

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Tell her to blow me for it

:laugh:

 

[StageLeft]

Depends how long I've known her and would only help if I saw myself getting married one day.

 

[Tylanner]

Insanity.

 

[Yossarian]

give it to her, but find out the school's tuition reimbursement policy if she kills herself partway through the semester.

 

[staeiou]

Originally posted by: arcenite
How do you not qualify for a student loan? I thought if you were a student, you qualified?

Student loans are granted on the premise that, after college, you will be making enough money to pay back the loans. If they don't think you can pay back their loan, why should they lend it?

If various non-profit organizations dedicated to getting people to college, the National Banks of [wherever], and the friggin United States Federal Government, with all of their resources, doesn't think that she can pay back the loan, why should you?

 

[desteffy]

just STAY AWAY wow... all Fs sounds like she can take a couple years off school and make some money to go back to a CommCollege. If its HER OWN MONEY she might take things a little more seriously. And if "some other guy" is willing to jump in and pay for her college, is that really your loss???

 

[EatSpam]

Originally posted by: Aimster
ok let me add:

she qualifies for no student loans or financial aid.

Do you just let her not go to school?

Why can't she get a student loan?

 

[tami]

she could go to a free counseling course with her local hospital i'll bet. then they'll put her on the right track and maybe eventually she'll be able to be responsible enough to pay for school and to handle her bills properly.

 

[lotust]

Originally posted by: JasonSix78
Stay out of it, help here fill out financial aid forms.

-Jason

yes

 

[Rogue]

Originally posted by: Sex Smurf

Originally posted by: Aimster
Her situation:

Made all Fs in 4-year college.
Wants money to go to community college. She is suicidal because she is flunking out of college and is trying hard to get another chance. Her second chance is going to community college and forgetting about university.

Has no credit and if she has any credit it is screwed up.
Has no family to get the money from.

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No I'm not going to give her the money. I'm asking because if I leave her alone maybe some other dude will help her out and not me. That's why I was wondering if guys do this kind of crap for girls.

I guess not. So she is SOL. Maybe she'll end up with a sucker who will pay her bills. I know there are guys like that out there. None will admit it, but for ass a lot of guys will do stupid stuff.

Don't think finishing community college will help this one. Stay away from her.

Introduce her to stripping.

I was going to recommend stripping for her too, hell, everyone's doing it now anyway to get through school!

Based on my math, you're saying she works less than 50 hours per month, right? I work that in a week, sometimes less. I go to school full time too! She's a lazy, money grubber and anyone that takes her up on her request is a bonafied idiot.

 

[Kadarin]

Oh, and please make sure she reads this thread. :thumbsup:

 

[Anonemous]

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Aimster
ok let me add:

she qualifies for no student loans or financial aid.

Do you just let her not go to school?

Why can't she get a student loan?

same question. even with bad grades/credit they'll give her loans. Maybe she needs to call 1800 ditech or something.

 

[deejayshakur]

you'd think by her 2nd or 3rd year, she woulda stopped making Fs or gotten some sort of academic or psychicatric help.

updates?

 

[Gooberlx2]

what would you do?

not be a sucker

 

[bret]

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Tell her to blow me for it

or a hummer

 

[Aimster]

She's going to her dean this week with a doctor's note saying she has ADD/Depression.

She's going to try to get all her Fs turned into Ws so she can start fresh at the university.

I wonder what the chances of that happening are. She wants to be a dentist.

 

[mwtgg]

Originally posted by: Aimster
She's going to her dean this week with a doctor's note saying she has ADD/Depression.

She's going to try to get all her Fs turned into Ws so she can start fresh at the university.

I wonder what the chances of that happening are. She wants to be a dentist.

She has ADD and she's depressed? What the hell?

Are you jerking our chains again?