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PHiuR

Diamond Member
Apr 24, 2001
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Originally posted by: Aimster
She works, but makes $8.50 an hour.

School + books = $thousands

loan her the money or tell her too bad?

chances of her paying you back are going to be slim to none since she only makes $300-400/month and she uses that for her own personal expenses (food, etc).

once again, just tell her to take out a bank loan as as a student...im almost 100% sure that she can.
 

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Lifer
Oct 11, 1999
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Originally posted by: Aimster
She works, but makes $8.50 an hour.

School + books = $thousands

loan her the money or tell her too bad?

chances of her paying you back are going to be slim to none since she only makes $300-400/month and she uses that for her own personal expenses (food, etc).

Maybe she should go to a cheaper school. I got a perfectly fine education at a state school in engineering, it cost less than 1500 every quarter.

 

olds

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Mar 3, 2000
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Originally posted by: ironcrotch
How do you not qualify for loans or grants, I think you have to get one or the other. Unsubsidized even. I think she's trying to work you sideways.

I doubt that this applies to him, it's probably for a friend. The topic summary makes me believe that.
 

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Lifer
May 3, 2000
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Originally posted by: Aimster
Originally posted by: ironcrotch
How do you not qualify for loans or grants, I think you have to get one or the other. Unsubsidized even. I think she's trying to work you sideways.

Making all Fs/Ws

WTF does that mean?
 

Aimster

Lifer
Jan 5, 2003
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Originally posted by: PHiuR
Originally posted by: Aimster
She works, but makes $8.50 an hour.

School + books = $thousands

loan her the money or tell her too bad?

chances of her paying you back are going to be slim to none since she only makes $300-400/month and she uses that for her own personal expenses (food, etc).

once again, just tell her to take out a bank loan as as a student...im almost 100% sure that she can.


lol this person has no credit and missed payment on her credit card last month and again this month. She paid late twice.


 

Sex Smurf

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Oct 13, 2004
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Give her all that she asks for - she's obviously the woman you're going to marry anyway.


*my anti-advice for the day
 

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Lifer
Aug 9, 2002
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Originally posted by: Aimster
lol this person has no credit and missed payment on her credit card last month and again this month. She paid late twice.

Then she's a flake, and not someone I'd be involved with.
 

DAGTA

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Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: Aimster
Originally posted by: ironcrotch
How do you not qualify for loans or grants, I think you have to get one or the other. Unsubsidized even. I think she's trying to work you sideways.

Making all Fs/Ws

So she's not even serious about school either. How about you just hand her all of your money.
 

Ryuson99

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Aimster is seems to me that you're just looking for somebody to agree with you, but this bitch is a gold-digger aint no one here going to tell you to pay for her. She has NO CREDIT for a reason.
 

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Lifer
May 3, 2000
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Originally posted by: Ryuson99
Aimster is seems to me that you're just looking for somebody to agree with you, but this bitch is a gold-digger aint no one here going to tell you to pay for her. She has NO CREDIT for a reason.

To be fair, he never said that the girl asked him for the money. He just asked if he should offer the money to her or not.
 

Sex Smurf

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Oct 13, 2004
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Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: Sex Smurf
Did you really need advice or were just looking for attention?

Validation

Ok, as long as you do what is right for YOU. Don't be blinded by a big butt and a smile.
 

Aimster

Lifer
Jan 5, 2003
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Her situation:

Made all Fs in 4-year college.
Wants money to go to community college. She is suicidal because she is flunking out of college and is trying hard to get another chance. Her second chance is going to community college and forgetting about university.

Has no credit and if she has any credit it is screwed up.
Has no family to get the money from.

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No I'm not going to give her the money. I'm asking because if I leave her alone maybe some other dude will help her out and not me. That's why I was wondering if guys do this kind of crap for girls.

I guess not. So she is SOL. Maybe she'll end up with a sucker who will pay her bills. I know there are guys like that out there. None will admit it, but for ass a lot of guys will do stupid stuff.
 

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Lifer
Oct 11, 1999
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Originally posted by: Aimster
Originally posted by: ironcrotch
How do you not qualify for loans or grants, I think you have to get one or the other. Unsubsidized even. I think she's trying to work you sideways.

Making all Fs/Ws

That's the grades she's getting?

Heh, make her go to a community college and then pass her classes first then talk about paying for anything.
 

bradruth

Lifer
Aug 9, 2002
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Originally posted by: Aimster
Her situation:

Made all Fs in 4-year college.
Wants money to go to community college. She is suicidal because she is flunking out of college and is trying hard to get another chance. Her second chance is going to community college and forgetting about university.

Has no credit and if she has any credit it is screwed up.
Has no family to get the money from.

There is NO way I would ever be involved with someone even close to that.