If you had the choice to have sex tonight

Hyperblaze

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With a lady whom you have no feelings, would you go for it?

Or would you wait till you actually had real feelings for her before actually doing the deed?

Edit: Poll updated

edit: to answer a few more questions...

yes you do find her sexually attractive/hot
 

djheater

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I've been in both positions and can tell you, in retrospect, as long as you're both willing, it's all good.

Waiting is no better than not... really.
 

nakedfrog

No Lifer
Apr 3, 2001
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No feelings at all? Not even a little buddy-buddy or anything?
Eh, doesn't matter, shag anyway.
 

Zysoclaplem

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What does that make someone, if they just want to have sex without some type of a relationship?
A slut?
A hoe?
A guy?
I would definately want something there.
 

raildogg

Lifer
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shoulda included the option "sex with self"

edit:
not that i do it, but adding it couldnt hurt :)
 

Hyperblaze

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Originally posted by: raildogg
shoulda included the option "sex with self"

edit:
not that i do it, but adding it couldnt hurt :)

unfortunately, that would be contrary to the purpose of this thread.

 

FFactory0x

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Damn right you better do the horizontal shuffle or whatever else position you do. What kind of question is this?????????????????????? You better say yes if a girl askes you for sex or you gay. Not that there's anything wrong with that. hehe
 

Hyperblaze

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Originally posted by: FFactory0x
Damn right you better do the horizontal shuffle or whatever else position you do. What kind of question is this?????????????????????? You better say yes if a girl askes you for sex or you gay. Not that there's anything wrong with that. hehe

i'm just curious to see how many folks wait for an emotional attachment.

 

FFactory0x

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seriously though, you could wait a long time for emoptional attachment. Sex is a normal natural thing and as someone said earlier in the thread, if your both willing to do it than go for it. One thing i must say though is dont get emotionally attached to the random person your having sex with.
 

GoingUp

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No feelings as in youre not attracted to her, or no feelings as in you think shes hot but you just want to nail her and move on?
 

Hyperblaze

Lifer
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Originally posted by: FFactory0x
seriously though, you could wait a long time for emoptional attachment. Sex is a normal natural thing and as someone said earlier in the thread, if your both willing to do it than go for it. One thing i must say though is dont get emotionally attached to the random person your having sex with.

different personal preference for different people is what it comes down to

I never claimed one answer was wrong and the other was right.

I have my own opinion on it and see what others thought.