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tami

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Originally posted by: sonz70
Originally posted by: tami
i am a daughter, and i was raised religious. therefore, i was expected to not have been sexually active until i was married, and i adhered to those wishes.

That is no fun at all :(

well, i have had my share of boyfriends, but i wasn't going to do it with just anyone. he had to be the right one.

fooling around may be "fun," but it's not cool when you get STDs or some crazy illnesses.
 

GimpyOne

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My daughter is never having sex...ever.

Am I in denial? Damn Right! But I like it that way! (and yes I do have a daughter)
 
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Lola

18. I cannot ay more because i started having sex with my BF(now husband) at 17. I would hope we would have raised her well enough for her to be responsible.
 

sonz70

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Originally posted by: tami
Originally posted by: sonz70
Originally posted by: tami
i am a daughter, and i was raised religious. therefore, i was expected to not have been sexually active until i was married, and i adhered to those wishes.

That is no fun at all :(

well, i have had my share of boyfriends, but i wasn't going to do it with just anyone. he had to be the right one.

fooling around may be "fun," but it's not cool when you get STDs or some crazy illnesses.

I know quite a number of people who are sexualy active and STD free
 

ktehmok

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Considering that the majority of girls these days are "veterans" by the time they get their drivers license. It's pretty much a given that your daughter is going to be active. Even if you give her the best values in the world, her little whore friends will do their best to influence her so that they don't feel as trashy as they are.

Nowadays it all about damage control. Make them stick to a strict regimen of protection/birth control/self-control. It's going to happen, you're a fvcking idiot if you think or believe otherwise. You're best case scenerio is that they don't end up on a goddamn web page.

I have a 9 year old daughter, and I'm planning/preparing for the worst. That way I can only be surprised.


 

Leper Messiah

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Originally posted by: ktehmok
Considering that the majority of girls these days are "veterans" by the time they get their drivers license. It's pretty much a given that your daughter is going to be active. Even if you give her the best values in the world, her little whore friends will do their best to influence her so that they don't feel as trashy as they are.

Nowadays it all about damage control. Make them stick to a strict regimen of protection/birth control/self-control. It's going to happen, you're a fvcking idiot if you think or believe otherwise. You're best case scenerio is that they don't end up on a goddamn web page.

I have a 9 year old daughter, and I'm planning for the worst. That way I can only be pleasantly surprised.

fixed ;)
 

EatSpam

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Originally posted by: sonz70
Originally posted by: tami
i am a daughter, and i was raised religious. therefore, i was expected to not have been sexually active until i was married, and i adhered to those wishes.

That is no fun at all :(

Seriously. I mean religion is all well and good, but to let it interfere with your relatively short life? nah.
 

ktehmok

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Originally posted by: L3p3rM355i4h
Originally posted by: ktehmok
Considering that the majority of girls these days are "veterans" by the time they get their drivers license. It's pretty much a given that your daughter is going to be active. Even if you give her the best values in the world, her little whore friends will do their best to influence her so that they don't feel as trashy as they are.

Nowadays it all about damage control. Make them stick to a strict regimen of protection/birth control/self-control. It's going to happen, you're a fvcking idiot if you think or believe otherwise. You're best case scenerio is that they don't end up on a goddamn web page.

I have a 9 year old daughter, and I'm planning for the worst. That way I can only be pleasantly surprised.

fixed ;)


fvckin sicktard, your rock is calling.
 

NorthRiver

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May 6, 2002
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90, and I told her this already. She is almost 13, and I have to put my foot down on something:)
 

Saint Nick

Lifer
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i say 17 years old but if she messes her life up i'm not going to be there for her and she'll understand that. if she doesn't, then too damn bad.

my heart my change if that time ever comes.
 

Leper Messiah

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Originally posted by: ktehmok
Originally posted by: L3p3rM355i4h
Originally posted by: ktehmok
Considering that the majority of girls these days are "veterans" by the time they get their drivers license. It's pretty much a given that your daughter is going to be active. Even if you give her the best values in the world, her little whore friends will do their best to influence her so that they don't feel as trashy as they are.

Nowadays it all about damage control. Make them stick to a strict regimen of protection/birth control/self-control. It's going to happen, you're a fvcking idiot if you think or believe otherwise. You're best case scenerio is that they don't end up on a goddamn web page.

I have a 9 year old daughter, and I'm planning for the worst. That way I can only be pleasantly surprised.

fixed ;)


fvckin sicktard, your rock is calling.

EH? If you prepare and expect the worse, when you are suprised, it would be a good thing would it not? Jeesus. there was no inuendo in my statement.
 

jpeyton

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Originally posted by: Shawn
married

Good luck with that one.

The ones that end up preggers first are the ones who have parents that tell them to abstain until marriage.

Teach your children about protection and safe sex.
 

Gibson486

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i know for a fact it probably will happen before marriage....i hope it doesn't, but that is just wishful thinking.
 

ktehmok

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Originally posted by: L3p3rM355i4h
Originally posted by: ktehmok
Originally posted by: L3p3rM355i4h
Originally posted by: ktehmok
Considering that the majority of girls these days are "veterans" by the time they get their drivers license. It's pretty much a given that your daughter is going to be active. Even if you give her the best values in the world, her little whore friends will do their best to influence her so that they don't feel as trashy as they are.

Nowadays it all about damage control. Make them stick to a strict regimen of protection/birth control/self-control. It's going to happen, you're a fvcking idiot if you think or believe otherwise. You're best case scenerio is that they don't end up on a goddamn web page.

I have a 9 year old daughter, and I'm planning for the worst. That way I can only be pleasantly surprised.

fixed ;)


fvckin sicktard, your rock is calling.

EH? If you prepare and expect the worse, when you are suprised, it would be a good thing would it not? Jeesus. there was no inuendo in my statement.

My apologies. I guess I read that wrong, this is ATOT. I jumped the gun & assumed it was some asstard posting with his d|ck instead of his brain...

BTW this "is" ATOT, inuendo is our modus.....
 

tami

Lifer
Nov 14, 2004
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Originally posted by: EatSpam
Originally posted by: sonz70
Originally posted by: tami
i am a daughter, and i was raised religious. therefore, i was expected to not have been sexually active until i was married, and i adhered to those wishes.

That is no fun at all :(

Seriously. I mean religion is all well and good, but to let it interfere with your relatively short life? nah.

it's not about religion. it's about making the act a truly special and wonderful thing and saving it for the right time. granted, i grew up religious, but even if i didn't (and i'll be honest to say that i've rebelled against religion in some ways -- however, not sexually), i wouldn't do it.