if yer desi... gimme yer thoughts on the following

xyyz

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here I sit at 3am with nothing better to do... so I started thinking... about desi gurls, in particular those that belong to the ISU (indian student union) and the PSU (pakistani student union), and this thought was sparked by two events that happened.

yesterday I caught a glimpse of the typical ISU chick while wasting a friends money at gameworks... drop dead gorgeous (stress on the DROP DEAD) with her wanna'be gangsta' (more like poser) desi BF (very bombay posse-ish, those desis in LA will know what i'm talking about)... really flaunting her looks, at that time while i was reminding my self to put tounge back in mouth... wipe drool and shut the mouth... which isn't the main point... I was reminded about how pathetic this lot of desi women really are...

again today... while sampling someone's mixes... i came across the following website:

http://atifshanandasim.arecool.net/

as I tried to replicate the shameless drool experience of yesterday, i was disappointed to find no pictures, but was nonetheless entertained to find some ultra stupidity spewn by our lovable but airheaded ISU/PSU desi chick "crew."

many might not be too familiar with the entire ISU/PSU chick schpeel... so let me educate you a bit.

you have two kinds of desi gurls in high school... both share one trait, they are insecure on their own and they need a group environment to reinforce one another

case 1 - hated anything "indiany" in high school, considered anyone who spoke, hindu/urdu/punjabi etc while on campus "fobby" and would never be caught dead around them. these kinds, if allowed to date, would never date their own, would almost always date someone who was white, because they wished with all their heart they were white

case2 - did spend some times with other desis (someone who is from south asia) but the group was very tight... they didn't spend any time with those that didn't belong to their clique

anyways... what happens is that these chicks graduate... and quite often they all split and are forced to find new friends.... 95% of the time those that go to college (some get married) go to the best schools (yes we desis are very proud of our women... for their high intelligence... well in the west coast at least... i've heard about you east coast desis ;p ;) j/k)... sorry for the digression... so what happens is that these gurls are forced to find new friends... now remember that they are very insecure alone... the case 1 gurls (after some struggle) who aren't too bold on their own now find the need to resort to sticking to their own, quite often they find many others gurls who have their same attitudes towards their own kind... they feel a bond with the other sellouts. the case 2 gurls find mixing with other desis alot easier, because they came from an all desi group in high school.

anyways... once these new cliques are formed these women are back with the games... each member of a clique reinforces every other member... providing a near impervious arrogance bubble. if the clique doesn't feel you equal then, you are an outcast and will be completely ignored.

This ISU/PSU can last until graduation... when these women are forced to mature because they lose that friend network or their parents pester then to get married and they marry a i'm-not-gonna-deal-with-your-bs desi guy.


Does anyone have any reason why desi women tend to act this way? Why do they feel so insecure about themselves... why is it when you speak a native language you are branded a fob... why is it that desi women tend to think they reign supreme over all other women?

As you get older you sit and look at these cliques parading around durring diwalli, chand raat, or independance day and you can't help but laugh to yourself about how pathetic desis women can be... they'd get so much further in life if they would try and be normal.
 

Nutcase99

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<< Does anyone have any reason why desi women tend to act this way? Why do they feel so insecure about themselves... why is it when you speak a native language you are branded a fob... why is it that desi women tend to think they reign supreme over all other women? >>



They act this way cause they think its &quot;cool&quot; they don't think that us real desis are cool and what not. This way they are leaving their culture behind and all the restrictions that it gives them. I dont get why their parents let them do this kind of stuff. Well I don't have ANY desis in my school it kinda sucks I'm the only one there but as to why they thing your a fob is because I think they just dont want ANYTHING to do with their culture. Their parents thier country and its kinda rude to speak a diffrent language around people who don't know it (IMHO) but I don't think thats why they they label you a fob.
 

xyyz

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the sad thing... and this is prominent in india and pakistan... is that the culture becomes more appealing to them... after it's pressed through the western world.

the perfect example is mendhi or &quot;henna tatoos.&quot; it's been a part of desi culture for centuries... but it becomes extremely popular after the western world begins to take interest.

you go to any desi-land country and you will see people with mendhi all over their bodies... and why? because it's the &quot;cool&quot; and &quot;western&quot; thing to do.
 

Nutcase99

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yea thats true. Another thing that girls stopped doing over there and all the desis here is getting their nose pierced! It used to be so popular there but then people stopped and when all people here in the us and other european coutries started doing it all the desis start again!! GRRRRRRRr

It just makes me mad at times.