if he messes up is it ok to hit em up style?

[weezergirl]

if your significant other cheated on you is it ok to hit em up style? (basically spend all his/her cash and/or sell all his stuff hehe)

and anybody have any horror stories about what their exes did to them or what u've done to your ex??

 

[Deeko]

a) that song sucks
b) no

 

[CuriousAndy]

a) that song sucks
b) that singer's voice is just so perfectly fit to annoy me
c) no

 

[weezergirl]

hehe ok ok..the song sucks.

 

[GoldenGuppy]

on a side note to the lyrics

If somebody cheats on you, it's your fault for not satisfying him/her enough. Yes, that's it, it's definitely not anybody else's fault but your own. So if you go ahead and auction off all their items, you're only making your "already bad stance" even worse! That's the way I look at it at least. I mean, putting things in perspective, if you get w/ a person in the first place, you should know him/her well enough to want to make a commitment... however, how much of this person do you know?

Chances are you'd know quite a bit before getting into a relationship - so you should know how this person is... therefore, you know what you are getting yourself into! It's a basic theroem So think about it... when a guy/girl leaves you, what did you do to warrant such an act? Did you not satisfy? Or was this person just a jerk to begin w/ (if the person is a jerk, then selling all his/her items would have some justifications)

However, answer this, if he/she was a jerk, how'd you end up w/ him/her in the first place?

><GG>

 

[veryape]

DON'T THINK SO!!!!

 

[wnied]

If he or she cheats,leave and move on with your life. The less attention you pay to those who seek to hurt you, the more you empower yourself over them.

and I agree with Deeko...That song DOES suck.

~wnied~

 

[GoldenGuppy]

<< and I agree with Deeko...That song DOES suck. >>



Only thing worse than the song is the music video - yes, the one that was just on MTV 10 minutes ago - damn Friday night TV sucks - even w/ DirecTV

><GG>

 

[eakers]

GG you are a jerk!

add that to your sig!

*kat. <-- rather upset.

 

[GoldenGuppy]

<< GG you are a jerk!

add that to your sig!

*kat. <-- rather upset. >>



Not a chance! A-ha!

But seriously, I can't, AT only allows so many characters per sig. and that has been exhausted.


><GG>

 

[phatcow]

She deserves to be "hit up with style" in jail for CREDITCARD FRAUD. dumb bitch doesent understand the meaning of visa consumer protection.

even if i cheated with a girl, and she uses my creditcards, spends them to their MAX, you better believe me when i tell you that i would be on the phone with Visa fraud department pressing charges for unauthorized charges.


who does this bitch think she is.

what is this promoting such behavior. and for the record, that song is pretty ummm alright, but still. such behavior.

 

[hoe4damoney]

My you have a large "sig" GG.



Add that to your sig

 

[UNCjigga]

Okay first off, I will NEVER give credit card/bank account info to my girl if she has friends named Sole and Mia okay!!

 

[LaBang]

I like the song but i want to hit that b!tch up! I'm all for encouraging women to be strong but telling them to STEAL from me makes me mad! Good thing I stole her music so that she doesn't get a single penny. :|

 

[UNCjigga]

Blu Cantrell and Destiny's Child have a lot of man-hating goin' on...I think they're trying to inspire a new celibacy movement amongst teens :frown:

..or even worse, maybe they're trying to convert those girls into lesbians :Q

 

[Beowulf]

I would never cheat on a girl of course if I did it was because she deserved it and thats the bottom line.

 

[GoldenGuppy]

<< I would never cheat on a girl of course if I did it was because she deserved it and thats the bottom line. >>



And if she cheated on you, and gave you such an excuse would you be so curious as to want a justification as to just what it was that you did that annoyed her and initiate the "affair" that she had w/ some other guy? Under what conditions would you view a girl as deserving it? Of course whatever you say would be an answer that is representative of your outlook on a relationship - might be different from my , might be similar... and that's exactly what I'm talking about!

I'm glad you brought this up beowulf - because this particular song, assumes that all girls should take a universal action against all men who cheat on them. Which is a fallacy, you have to understand that different things happen for different reasons based on different ideals on a relationship.

Like you for example... you feel as though a girl would deserve it if you cheated on her.. I'm sure that it would stand w/ your argument - because I somewhat agree w/ your stance... however, Eakers was annoyed as to what I said, but then again that's just her viewpoint whatever works for you, should be just that.

><GG>

 

[Beowulf]

Well I was mostly kidding with my comment.I would not cheat on a girl for such things as a fight or restriction of my computer access now if she was boning some other guy I figure why not.I would never spend somebodies cash because they cheated on me thats just not my style.I really can't say what I would do or my stance on the subject since I have yet to even be in a relationship but I will back what I first said since I feel that is right well partially.

 

[Platypus]

Just another whiney ***** who cant sing and who cant keep a boyfriend because of her arrogance and her gold digging tactics. Ill see you in hell blue cantrell

 

[dawks]

Hit em up style? WTF is that... that is the most stupid slang I have ever heard. It makes no sense.. Well maybe it would if I was a hood-rat.''

And whos the dumba$$ guy that would give his G/F credit/bank access.. That tool diserves what he gets..

 

[Jfur]

GG -- eakers is correct. If you are with someone and they don't please you then be up front about it and break it off with them (or talk it out with them). Anything else is lame. I tell all the females I know who cheat on their husbands or boyfriends the same thing (it's more common than your think, guys) -- if he isn't pleasing you, stop "faking it" and let him know. If it doesn't work out, break it off as kindly as you can -- but using that as an excuse to cheat is retarded.

 

[woodly6]

Am I out of the loop on this one? What song is that sux so bad?


Cheaters Deserve what they get!

 

[chiwawa626]

<< Hit em up style? WTF is that... that is the most stupid slang I have ever heard. It makes no sense.. Well maybe it would if I was a hood-rat.'' >>



Damn if u never heard the frase "hit em up" then you gotta be from the boonies...

 

[GoldenGuppy]

<< GG -- eakers is correct. If you are with someone and they don't please you then be up front about it and break it off with them (or talk it out with them). Anything else is lame. I tell all the females I know who cheat on their husbands or boyfriends the same thing (it's more common than your think, guys) -- if he isn't pleasing you, stop "faking it" and let him know. If it doesn't work out, break it off as kindly as you can -- but using that as an excuse to cheat is retarded.
>>



Of course, I'm sure that this would be the sensitive male/female approach... talk it out, it's great, of course, and I support it by all means. But there comes a time when you should know what you're committed too... and YOU will know whether a guy is a player or not... or girl is a hoe or not... you can tell, don't give me such arguments as to, "He changed on me" which can happen, but that would be your fault for being eaten up w/ the deception. If somebody isn't pleasing you... you should show your discretion in other ways... well only when talking doesn't work of course, and in most cases w/ a guy/girl who is stubborn enough to cheat on you - it will not work.

><GG>

 

[Jfur]

<<

<< GG -- eakers is correct. If you are with someone and they don't please you then be up front about it and break it off with them (or talk it out with them). Anything else is lame. I tell all the females I know who cheat on their husbands or boyfriends the same thing (it's more common than your think, guys) -- if he isn't pleasing you, stop "faking it" and let him know. If it doesn't work out, break it off as kindly as you can -- but using that as an excuse to cheat is retarded.
>>



Of course, I'm sure that this would be the sensitive male/female approach... talk it out, it's great, of course, and I support it by all means. But there comes a time when you should know what you're committed too... and YOU will know whether a guy is a player or not... or girl is a hoe or not... you can tell, don't give me such arguments as to, "He changed on me" which can happen, but that would be your fault for being eaten up w/ the deception. If somebody isn't pleasing you... you should show your discretion in other ways... well only when talking doesn't work of course, and in most cases w/ a guy/girl who is stubborn enough to cheat on you - it will not work.

><GG> >>



Or leave them if you don't want to talk! At least then he or she is not under the impression that everything is ok. Are you really SURE that you satisfy her??? Of course, almost all guys will say yes, but many will be wrong. Would that justify her screwing around?? I think not.