If a guy kissed you unexpectedly

[MongGrel]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22VmzX35pvM

ZZZZZzzzzzzz....

 

[Kushina]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22VmzX35pvM

ZZZZZzzzzzzz....

She used to be so good looking :| not sure how a break up can make a woman age 10 years.

 

[bbhaag]

It depends a lot on the circumstances. On the few occasions that this has happened to me I had too gently push away and explain to the guy that I didn't feel the same way.
Along time ago I did have a friend who kissed me unexpectedly and there was a spark. He was very charming and artistic. We had a lot in common like music, politics, art, even video games. Just the same views on life ya know...we just clicked. Part of me regrets pushing him away and not pursuing what might have been.

 

[Kushina]

It depends a lot on the circumstances. On the few occasions that this has happened to me I had too gently push away and explain to the guy that I didn't feel the same way.
Along time ago I did have a friend who kissed me unexpectedly and there was a spark. He was very charming and artistic. We had a lot in common like music, politics, art, even video games. Just the same views on life ya know...we just clicked. Part of me regrets pushing him away and not pursuing what might have been.

Well since you really need it I will be here for you

 

[bbhaag]

Don't be mean. Your a sweet guy with a big heart. You asked the question. I gave you my answer.
I hope you find what your looking for but trying to pick a fight with me isn't it.

 

[Kushina]

Either you misunderstood or understood too much or I misunderstood.

 

[ThinClient]

I'd take it as a compliment. I'd politely decline, ever the statesman, but I wouldn't be offended or scream rape or harassment like some kind of asshole.

 

[jagec]

For what possible reason would you commit assault on someone for kissing you? I'm genuinely curious why your 'reflex' would be to commit a crime.

Technically an unsolicited kiss is already a crime.

That said, I'd probably just push the guy away and crack a joke about needing to at least buy me a drink first.

 

[kage69]

So based on "kissed unexpectedly" you jumped straight into a French kiss tongue insertion / hepatitis fantasy arc?

Did you somehow miss how I specifically accounted for the two extremes of encounter in my first post? And yes, if a guy you tell "seriously, leave me the hell alone," pretends to leave, then approaches you from out of view and tries to neck with you? Yes, that would fall under "kissed unexpectedly."

Fantasy arc? What the hell is wrong with you? I can think of numerous reasons I don't want to exchange saliva with another stranger, that one's a little more on the serious side, and yes, an actual risk these days. Just when I really start to suspect you don't get out much, you confirm it right on cue. Speaking of fantasy, are we done with your online shrink bit? On to fortune telling now?

Interesting where your mind is at I suppose. That's clearly a stretch from what the OP posted but ok.

Yes, clearly you're bent on this view that I didn't take time to make the distinction between light-hearted exchanges between fellow friends and persistent encounters with drunk assholes. Certainly not in my first post. Nope.

You would be hilariously wrong in your assumption that I've not been in this position personally before or seen others in it.

Ahhh, so now you're concerned about assumptions being involved. You making sweeping generalizations regarding people you've most likely never even met, but whatever, lets you put on your psychology professor hat right? But someone later uses the attitude of your posts to hazard a guess? Oh my. Hilarious indeed platypus, well done.

Go to some gay bars or pride parades sometime filled with drunks and get back to me before you question my experience with this. You're really not in a position to tell a gay male what other guys are capable of when intoxicated in my opinion.

Now who's the e-tough guy? You don't think it odd that you're requesting the consideration you refuse to give to others? Because you know better, right professor?

The issue here is that you've taken "kissed unexpectedly" and turned it into something far different simply to support your argument.

Not at all, again, if you re-read my initial post you should find it starting with me accounting for that very generic, not different at all type of incident. Either address my entire input, or none at all. Thanks.

So sure, if someone is harassing you to the point that it becomes sexual assault, you can and should defend yourself. That is certainly much different than what my contextual statements were referring to though.

I'll just take this qualifier to mean you're not as ideological as you first appeared. Good enough.

 

[Red Squirrel]

It depends, how big is his penis? Is he cute? Did he buy my lunch after?

That is the important part.

I'm not gay, but a free lunch is a free lunch. :awe:

 

[Platypus]

Either address my entire input, or none at all. Thanks.

I'll go with none at all at this point... your last post is seriously so fucked, smug, spiteful for no reason and frankly disturbing that there is zero value in engaging in further conversation with you. Take that as a 'you win' if you'd like.

 

[Gerle]

And you are a guy would you claim rape or harassment :hmm:





You know since now all that stuff is legal ? Can no stop it finally mean yes again ?

It isn't rape, nor harassment. It could be sexual assault.

What do you mean by "since now all that stuff is legal ? Can no stop it finally mean yes again ?"

Why did you consistently insert a space between the last word and the question mark?

 

[Cerpin Taxt]

Awww, do you need me to cuddle you by the fire, too? :wub:

 

[Kushina]

Why did you consistently insert a space between the last word and the question mark?

That is a good observation, I didn't notice that until just now. Why do I do that?

 

[Rakehellion]

Your left jab would need a ten foot reach to hit Platypus on his high horse.

 

[OutHouse]

if some guy kisses me he is getting punched in the nose.

 

[cbrunny]

That is a good observation, I didn't notice that until just now. Why do I do that?

Are you a rapist? Your OP says that you think 'No' means 'Yes' so I think there's a good chance you're a rapist.

 

[Ns1]

Is there tongue involved?

 

[Cerpin Taxt]

Is there tongue involved?

There can be. :wub:

 

[Ackmed]

And you are a guy would you claim rape or harassment :hmm:





You know since now all that stuff is legal ? Can no stop it finally mean yes again ?

I wouldn't claim anything. I would kick his ass.