if a girl were insecure, and doesnt feel comfortable around people......

[5489]

how would you, as a friend, go about changing that?

 

[Chaotic42]

You're asking a lot there.

Is she just shy?
Was she abused?
Does she have an illness?
Bad relationship?
Mental problems?

Find that out, then go from there.

 

[Yzzim]

Make her feel more comfortable with herself and she'll soon start to feel comfortable with other people.

Trust me, I know, I've been there before.

 

[gopunk]

i wouldn't... it's not my place to change people to what i think they should be.

 

[Yzzim]

Originally posted by: gopunk
i wouldn't... it's not my place to change people to what i think they should be.

If she asked for help, then it's okay.

If you're trying to change her so she's more outgoing and a better friend (in your eyes) without her wanting/knowing about it, then you're an ass

 

[dfi]

I just going to take a wild stab in the dark... you want to go out with this girl, and she doesn't go out with you and your friends as much as you'd like her to? Oh, and she also doesn't know that you like her, right?

I'm probably wrong... but I just got a "vibe"...

dfi

 

[y2kc]

booze

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: y2kc
booze

Along with liberal flirting, if she's cute..

 

[hans007]

just make the place less serious. i dunno be funny or something.