If a friend of a friend was cheating on her boyfriend.. *NEW POLL ADDED, VOTE AGAIN!*

spidey07

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I'd have a talk with the cheating ho first.

Like "WTF is wrong with you. If you diss my boy again or don't come clean and I hear about it you're toast."

-edit- oh, friend of a friend? stay out of it. I was approaching it if they were close friends of mine.
 

ILoveLamp

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I think you should tell him. I'm sure you would want to know if your girlfriend were cheating on you, I sure as hell would like to know if someone were cheating on me. If someone I didn't know came up to me and told me my bf was cheating on me, I might not believe it at first, I might even get a little angry at the person, but it would make me be a little more careful, and when I found out it was true, I would be very grateful to the one who told me.

I'm not sure if that made any sense at all....
 

bobbybe01

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I think the fact that you don't know him too well directly would make it easier to tell him what's going on. I think it would be the best thing, albeit not the easiest, thing to do.
 

bobbybe01

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Originally posted by: Siddhartha
It is none of your business.

It wasn't any of his business before when he didn't know about it....

And technically, it still isn't. He won't be involved with what happens afterwards, and in reality, he's not directly involved. But something needs to happen...I can't believe how many people voted "no." :confused:
 

ILoveLamp

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Originally posted by: Siddhartha
It is none of your business.

He knows about it, it's his business. By keeping his mouth shut, he's letting this guy go on in a relationship that obviously means sh!t to the girl. If the girl were his good friend, then he should take her side and shutup about it, but since he's sort of objective, the boyfriend has a right to know.

And how many of you could honestly say that if someone knew your bf/gf/fiancee/spouse were cheating on you, you would rather that person kept quiet about it and let it keep going on??
 

MDE

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If she's cheating with you or you don't like her, then rub it in his face. Otherwise keep yer mouth shut.
 

Trevelyan

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This is easily solved...

Just imagine you were that dude. Would YOU want some random guy coming to you and telling you if your girlfriend was cheating on you?

Personally, I would be appreciative, albeit doubtful. But I would definately look into it and if it turned out to be true I would definately be grateful that dude told me I was getting played. No one likes to get played man.