I think my e-girl friend isn't talking to me anymore.

TommyVercetti

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I said e-girl friend, not e-girlfriend, there is a difference.

Anyways, we have known each since October I believe, and have even gotten togather once at Starbucks. It was always nice to chat with her, exchange photos, talk about your day, work, family etc. But then since the last week I noticed that she hasn't been talking to me much. Usually, she would be the first one to IM as soon as she would see me online. But not anymore.

When I IM her, it usually takes her 2 minutes to respond to each IM, and since yesterday she hasn't even answered my IMs. I don't know what's going on, or what to do. Should I call her? The problem with calling her is that she has a really heavy accent, and it's hard to understand her at times, and it gets very frustrating on both ends.

I don't have anything for her, so it's not like I am trying to get a girlfriend. It was just fun talking to her, and the fact that she thought I was really cute was nice too.
 

Actaeon

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I speak from experience, I have someone who talks to me constantly, and I really don't feel like talking to them.

Maybe she wants a break, give her what she wants. Sounds shes avoiding you though, I do the same things (take a while to respond, sometimes ignore). Have you done anything to scare her off? If anything, let her come and talk to you, and within one week she doesn't, maybe try and talk to her.

If only this other girl online would do the same thing to me...
 

Kadarin

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You need to start acting like an e-thug. It's a know fact that e-girls are attracted to e-guys who act like e-assholes...
 

brigden

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I always thought you were gay.

Not that there's anything wrong with that...
 

Howard

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Originally posted by: Actaeon
I speak from experience, I have someone who talks to me constantly, and I really don't feel like talking to them.

Maybe she wants a break, give her what she wants. Sounds shes avoiding you though, I do the same things (take a while to respond, sometimes ignore). Have you done anything to scare her off? If anything, let her come and talk to you, and within one week she doesn't, maybe try and talk to her.

If only this other girl online would do the same thing to me...
TV says she used to initiate...
 

Actaeon

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Originally posted by: Howard
Originally posted by: Actaeon
I speak from experience, I have someone who talks to me constantly, and I really don't feel like talking to them.

Maybe she wants a break, give her what she wants. Sounds shes avoiding you though, I do the same things (take a while to respond, sometimes ignore). Have you done anything to scare her off? If anything, let her come and talk to you, and within one week she doesn't, maybe try and talk to her.

If only this other girl online would do the same thing to me...
TV says she used to initiate...

I used to as well (though, not all the time). I used to enjoy talking to this person, now I just want them to leave me alone.

Its an ex-girlfriend who wants me back.