I think I'm having a #metoo moment

[Fanatical Meat]

A woman from work wants be to take her home. I'm at the work holiday party and no it's not going to happen.

 

[snoopy7548]

Wrong forum?

Pics?

 

[werepossum]

I would have to really, really trust the woman to put myself in that position.

 

[FIVR]

Tell us where she touched you

 

[Victorian Gray]

Worth another go

 

[FIVR]

I've always been afraid of women. Terrified, even.

Worth another go

 

[Fanatical Meat]

It's actually kind of nice to be in my 40s and have a woman attracted to me but yes there was inappropriate talk and touching on her part nothing will happen I'm getting women's points on the issue.

 

[FIVR]

It's actually kind of nice to be in my 40s and have a woman attracted to me but yes there was inappropriate talk and touching on her part nothing will happen I'm getting women's points on the issue.

You were molested
#youtoo


Don't worry, you can always call HR in the morning. Get some sleep.

 

[Victorian Gray]

I've always been afraid of women. Terrified, even.

Yes, I know a few other Russians with that problem.

 

[imported_tajmahal]

As if it would make a difference? She can still make any claim she cares to make if she wants.

 

[Fanatical Meat]

You were molested
#youtoo


Don't worry, you can always call HR in the morning. Get some sleep.

I'm a realtor we're all contractors, no HR

 

[werepossum]

As if it would make a difference? She can still make any claim she cares to make if she wants.

Makes a huge difference in the plausibility of those claims.

 

[Fanatical Meat]

As if it would make a difference? She can still make any claim she cares to make if she wants.

Whoa that's a dark place to go

 

[FIVR]

Women are the oppressors, and we men are now the oppressed


Poor us.

 

[brianmanahan]

It's actually kind of nice to be in my 40s and have a woman attracted to me

that would be amazing, i've actually never had that happen to my knowledge

 

[FIVR]

I'm a realtor we're all contractors, no HR

Before we decide whether you were molested and what actions should be taken to address that, there are some questions you need to answer...


What were you wearing?
Did you wear it with the intention to look "sexy"?
Do you have a girlfriend? Wife?
Did you lead her on?

 

[werepossum]

that would be amazing, i've actually never had that happen to my knowledge

You've never had a woman be attracted to you? Are you actually on fire or something else that needs action? Or merely never had a woman be attracted to you in your forties?

 

[brianmanahan]

You've never had a woman be attracted to you? Are you actually on fire or something else that needs action? Or merely never had a woman be attracted to you in your forties?

not on fire, just not very hot... i've started working out though, hoping that will help

not quite forty either but within a few years of it

 

[werepossum]

not on fire, just not very hot... i've started working out though, hoping that will help

not quite forty either but within a few years of it

Working out will definitely help, but unless you have serious issues like, say, your insides being on the outside, chances are that women have been attracted to you. You probably just don't have the self confidence to notice and accept it.

 

[imported_tajmahal]

Makes a huge difference in the plausibility of those claims.

Not necessarily.

 

[Fanatical Meat]

Before we decide whether you were molested and what actions should be taken to address that, there are some questions you need to answer...


What were you wearing?
Did you wear it with the intention to look "sexy"?
Do you have a girlfriend? Wife?
Did you lead her on?

Business suit, I am more than completely satisfied with what I got at home

 

[Fanatical Meat]

Working out will definitely help, but unless you have serious issues like, say, your insides being on the outside, chances are that women have been attracted to you. You probably just don't have the self confidence to notice and accept it.

Words from a wise man are above.
I want to add take smart risks and talk to people you are not comfortable with, it will be painful at first, you'll beat yourself up for saying stupid things but at some point you'll learn to interact and be comfortable and happy about it. Honestly screwing up a discussion with someone doesn't matter in any way.

 

[FIVR]

Business suit, I am more than completely satisfied with what I got at home

What was your approximate blood alcohol content? Did you take any drugs?

 

[Fanatical Meat]

1.25 drinks over approximately 90-120 minutes
Most of one light beer
About 1/3 a Dewers & Gingerale. Shot size in this drink appeared to be pretty standard but not measured either
Last drug (pot) was taken July 4th, 1995 or 1996.

 

[brianmanahan]

Words from a wise man are above.
I want to add take smart risks and talk to people you are not comfortable with, it will be painful at first, you'll beat yourself up for saying stupid things but at some point you'll learn to interact and be comfortable and happy about it. Honestly screwing up a discussion with someone doesn't matter in any way.

i was on the elevator at work the other day and a couple ladies were joking about the cafeteria food

i kind of joined in the conversation and they just stopped laughing and looked around awkwardly and didn't say anything, then got off the elevator

sooo maybe i just need practice. but i've heard that if you're not good looking you need to be funny to compensate, and i suspect i'm not funny enough for as ugly as i am.