Time does not heal. Not even a little bit.Sometimes traumatic experiences from childhood can come back and really mess with you.
Time just festers and spreads the rot.
Time does not heal. Not even a little bit.Sometimes traumatic experiences from childhood can come back and really mess with you.
Since they were a mod maybe one of them could enlighten us.I'm not comfortable with "dead thread" ..... I for one consider U&T my friend and I'm not giving up hope.
I just want him to be okay.So keep this thread alive in case he comes lurking .... be great to see you online buddy!
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A: psychologist
B: say hi to the sheriff, additional charges may be possible
C: go to the parole hearing and show you still care and you feel he should be locked up.
Yeah, dead thread and I think he deleted his account.
Time does not heal. Not even a little bit.
Time just festers and spreads the rot.
That's one of the really harsh facts of life. Harsh enough that wiping these memories away may become big business, once the technology to do so becomes available. I'm fortunate in so many ways with many, many wonderful memories but when I have nothing to do and my mind is wandering aimlessly, the bad memories are the ones that come up to the surface and make me wish they hadn't happened.Time fades memories ..... unfortunately nothing makes the painful ones go completely away.![]()
I used to think that.Time fades memories ..... unfortunately nothing makes the painful ones go completely away.![]()
I used to think that.
But it just isn't true.
They just sit there, and the right thing will activate them. And when that happens, a mental health professional is required.
That's one of the really harsh facts of life. Harsh enough that wiping these memories away may become big business, once the technology to do so becomes available. I'm fortunate in so many ways with many, many wonderful memories but when I have nothing to do and my mind is wandering aimlessly, the bad memories are the ones that come up to the surface and make me wish they hadn't happened.
But my bad memories are what make me who I am today! Bad memories are part of who we are just as much as the good memories.It's certainly one advantage "machine" life or AI might have .... the ability to just "delete" bad memories.
EMDR is already proving helpful for some people in processing unresolved trauma.That's one of the really harsh facts of life. Harsh enough that wiping these memories away may become big business, once the technology to do so becomes available. I'm fortunate in so many ways with many, many wonderful memories but when I have nothing to do and my mind is wandering aimlessly, the bad memories are the ones that come up to the surface and make me wish they hadn't happened.
as for me, the 80% of the foundation of my life is bad memories, I yanked all those brinks the wall would come crashing down
