i think an older woman has fallen for me...

puffff

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so here i am, on my tour of thailand. i meet a thai woman on an excursion a few days ago, she gives me her number and tells me to call her when i get to bangkok. i figure it's just thai people being friendly. i call her when i get to bangkok, we go out to have dinner, then to a nightclub for some drinks... then things start to get really heavy. she said some things that caught me off guard a bit. she's not ugly or anything, but she's definately older than me. she wont tell me her age, but i'm guess it's around 35 or so? i'm only 24...

it's probably not a huge deal, i'll be out of the country in like a month so it's not gonna lead to anything (she knows that). all the same, i'm wondering if any atot'ers have had experiences with women considerably older than them.

this is just a really weird situation for me...

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oh, and what was i thinking, here's a pic

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the circumstances that we met makes me highly doubt of any suspicious stuff going on. she showed an interest before knowing i was american, actually assuming i was thai at first (she didnt find out i was american til later). plus she was supposed to be on a romantic first date with a thai gentleman (i feel bad for the guy cuz she obviously started paying less attention to him after we started talking).

i dont have warning bells going off yet... but i'll definately be more alert. i'm supposed to see her again tonight in like an hour, for what we both understand will probably be our last meeting (i'm leaving bangkok the day after, she doesnt live here either and is only here on business). but i do find the situation weird and interesting at the same time...
 

sixone

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Are you sure she's not trying to get pregnant? If your alarm bells are going off, there's probably a good reason.
 

Zysoclaplem

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Just see how things go. If they get too heavy, let her know. If she doesn't understand, then may'be you should move on. Hopefully she isn't crazy.
 

Bumrush99

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Dude, find her f*ck her and flee :D

She is probably looking for a ticket out of Thailand, do the deed, double wrap it and run.
 

puffff

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Originally posted by: Nomada
Beware; she looks damn good though. Good chance she's playing you.

i dont get the vibes that i'm being played. she's self employed with a successful business. i met her pretty much when she was on a date with thai guy, on a sightseeing tour. if she had randomly approached me while i was sitting in starbucks or somethng, i'd be a bit more wary.

no alarm bells ringing really, i've just never been hit on by older women before, so it feels weird.
 

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The more mature woman know what they want and are also willing to mold a youngster into what they want/need.
 

Abe Froman

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Originally posted by: Patt
She wants a green card! ;)

Trust me, the same thing happened to my cousin...we all advised against it, he never listened. She cheats on him, and so do the rest of the wives of men I know, who are here under similar circumstances.

But they do put out! haha
 

Adul

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my experience with successful women in thailand have been good. I have several friends there still. and yes they are older then me to. No it didnt go there.

btw havinga good time :)
 

puffff

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Originally posted by: Pepsei
bad picture of her, seems like she's got bad teeth. got any other pics?

yeah, but they're on my laptop up in my guesthouse, i'll be posting them in my blog eventually.

as for the greencard thing, if that's really the case, i dont have anything to worry about. i'm too busy travelling to get caught up in long term romantic interests right now :)
 

Alex

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Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Dude, find her f*ck her and flee :D

She is probably looking for a ticket out of Thailand, do the deed, double wrap it and run.

word
 

CVSiN

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Originally posted by: puffff
Originally posted by: Nomada
Beware; she looks damn good though. Good chance she's playing you.

i dont get the vibes that i'm being played. she's self employed with a successful business. i met her pretty much when she was on a date with thai guy, on a sightseeing tour. if she had randomly approached me while i was sitting in starbucks or somethng, i'd be a bit more wary.

no alarm bells ringing really, i've just never been hit on by older women before, so it feels weird.

35.. shes in her sexual prime =)
 

Pepsei

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Originally posted by: iroast
Originally posted by: sixone
Are you sure she's not trying to get pregnant? If your alarm bells are going off, there's probably a good reason.


this is thailand, so it is normal to knock people up and then leave with no guild. depends on OP's ethics of course.

besides we don't know if he went all the way or if she pulls a 'crying game' suprise.