i really miss my g/f

[fluxquantum]

we have been together for a year now. she lives in charlotte, nc and i live in columbus, ohio. i met her when i lived in columbia, sc and then relocated because of job prospects. i am so miserable without her. i try so hard to hang out with friends and work out, but my mind is so focused on her. she has one year of school left so i guess i have to be patient and wait for her. she stayed with me for the summer but it went by too quickly. we are trying to keep the phone calls too a minimum because neither one one of us can afford it. occasionally we try chatting through icq but it's just not the same. man, i think of her day and night. sometimes i can't even concentrate on work because i am so in love with her. she is my very first true girlfriend and i wouldn't want to be with anyone else. i was a little upset the other day with her because i found out that she wasn't a virgin. you see, i am 27 and i waited all this time and we finally made love this summer. i truly love her and she truly loves me, but it was a little hard to accept. i guess i need to move on and focus on the fact that she loves me. the good thing is that she said that no one ever made her feel this good in all her life. i am just depressed. sorry to complain to everyone. thanks for reading this.

 

[MaxDSP]

i know how you feel. I was in a similar situation 3 years ago and it was the hardest couple of weeks of my life when it happened.

 

[StageLeft]

You're still going out? No worries then! I just moved 1700 miles from my new wife in July and she is finishing school up in Canada so we're in similar situations.

If you both have computers with high speed internet go pick up a headset for like $20, you can talk through ICQ and it actually sounds pretty good. Alternatively if only one of you have high speed internet use a service like go2call.com which I'm using now. I can call my wife in Canada for a few cents a minute 24/7. I use my headset and it calls her on a regular phone. I highly recommend it. It sounds pretty decent as well.

 

[p0tempkin]

That record played for me once. It's tough, but you have to keep yourself busy, and you have to remember that if she's really the one, she will wait for you too (meaning she ain't going anywhere, so sit tight).

 

[bigrash]

i was a little upset the other day with her because i found out that she wasn't a virgin.

you've been together for a year and made love this summer, and just now you find out that she wasn't a virgin? shouldn't that conversation have taken place earlier?

 

[rgwalt]

I know how you feel my friend. My advice to you is to try and relax. It will work out, it will just take some time. Have you two thought about switching to cell phones with free long distance? You could get a cheap plan and a free phone from someone like Voicestream. I don't know how much your long distance bills have been, but going with the $40 plan or the $20 plan (plus an extra $7 to make all your minutes nationwide minutes) might save you some scratch, and allow you guys to talk more often.

Ryan

 

[aUt0eXebat]

dude, move back! you dont want to lose that person you found that you love....... trust me........

 

[chuckieland]

how old is she?
i don't know if there are any chick that is well over 25 and still a virgin
girls that is 16 are having sex now

 

[Viper GTS]

BigZoo is your friend

- 2.9 or 3.9 cents/minute, depending on whether you have a local dial-up number in your area or you have to use their 800 number.
- With speed-dial it's nearly as convenient as direct dial.
- Works both directions, she can call you or you can call her using the same PIN.

$40 would buy:

1379 anytime minutes if you have a direct dial number
1025 anytime minutes if you have to use the 800 number

Beat that with a cell phone.

And be honest with yourself, would you rather talk to her in front of your PC or wandering around (or laying in bed) with a cordless phone?

I've used BigZoo for quite a while now, I run $80 a month through them.

Viper GTS

 

[FelixDeCat]

i really miss my g/f

i miss her too

 

[yobarman]

<< i really miss my g/f

i miss her too >>



i was gonna say that but.. what the hell

I also miss her.

 

[rgwalt]

Good call Viper. That really is a good deal. I haven't had a land phone line in over a year, and that is why I recommended a cell phone.

Ryan

 

[GoldenGuppy]

Didn't work out too well for me guys when my ex-girlfriend actually moved away from me, she started to meet new people. Of course, I was never suspicious, I'm not the suspicious type . But low and behold, one day I get an email about the ordeal of her meeting another guy. Sucks, eh? I mean, she didn't even call Long DISTANCE! What the . Eh, it wasn't so bad though, I mean, it was relatively tough the first few hours, but then I got over it relatively quickly (been together like a year or so).

I figured that it was just one girl in a sea of billions - I'll find somebody who's right for me one day (although I would like to see this guy she's with now, I'm sure I can beat his ass on the runway any day!)

><GG>

 

[b0mbrman]

i guess i need to move on

Yawp, but that's insanely hard...