Sounds like we're fucked.
It's relative. Are they using a condom? Lube? Buying us dinner first? We're not seeing Hitler or a dictator who sends his centurians throughout out cities slaughtering. There are big problems, but limits to them.
Things can get worse or not get as much worse, if that's any comfort, depending in part if people vote earlier than later the right ways.
One funny thing is, in even some of the worst societies, many people not only didn't think it was so terrible, they often even preferred the system.
I heard a story last week that one of the Iraqi election officials told a reporter 99% of the people in the organization would vote for Saddam right now.
You know, continuing with your metaphor, animals are raped all the time, but we don't worry about it much.
Things could get worse here and many would still say they're fine. People are funny.
Not many were saying we needed the government to cut elder poverty from 90% to 10% before FDR did it. Were the elderly screwed? They weren't saying that much. Would they be if 90% poverty returned?
If we lost our democracy altogether - very unlikely, more likely is for it to have mor and more limits on what it can do as the power of the people weakens - societies through human history have gotten by without it.
Were things so horrible under the 'tyranny' of King George III? Funny, many Americans supported stayinjg under England and even fought to do so. George Washington was against secession in 1775, until the war was guaranteed. And yet, our whole country's founding assumes things were that bad under England. It's all relative on your question.
What if we had our military slashed by 90%, our nukes eliminated while others still had theirs, weaker than other nations? Then we'd be like most nations in the world, and still 'stronger' than most.
Yet we don't care much about their getting out of that 'sad' situation. It's ok for them, not for us.
In 1900, the average income adujusted for inflation was $10,000 wile there were almost no worked protections. Were they 'screwed' - or in the greatest nation on earth under liberty?
IMO the Republicans will make things worse for most - Americans and non-Americans. Progressives are hard put to make them better but will do that or make them less worse. But 'screwed' is relative.
I do think we can be on the verge of an even more broken democracy with this court ruling giving corporations even more power relative to the people to a degree never seen in the country.
While corporations had a pretty good run in the late 19th century when they first got their 'corporations are people with rights under the constitution' passed then, they lacked the concentration of wealth now.
When English women faced what you mention, they were told 'lie back and think of England'. It's not all that different, I guess. But it's a better idea for them to get involved and informed politically.