Thank you all for the contributions.
I did lots of research from both the suggestions here of the thinkpad, and many Asus models. The Thinkpad is interesting because it has options of what to add, but does not offer the weight. Anyone know what the weight is?
The models that interest me to buy in a flash, seem to weigh near 9 lbs and that seems so heavy. I do all I can to keep away from Macs because I will need to learn and learn the new ways to do things. I am very drawn to Asus.
So I looked at these notebooks:
1. ASUS N70SV-X1 NoteBook Intel Core 2 Duo T9550(2.66GHz) 17.3" 4GB Memory 640GB HDD 7200rpm BD Combo NVIDIA GeForce GT 130M - Retail
This one is great but soooo heavy and very poor wireless, that reviewer had trouble staying connected for more than 30 seconds

that is Horrid!!
2. ASUS N81 Series N81Vp-C1 NoteBook Intel Core 2 Duo T9550(2.66GHz) 14.1" 4GB Memory 320GB HDD 7200rpm DVD Super Multi ATI Mobility Radeon HD 4650 - Retail
Has 2 great reviews and one contradicting them. Says it is very light weight but no weight is given in lbs.
3. Asus N10J-A2 Netbook (1.6GHz Intel Atom N270, 2GB DDR2, 320GB, Windows XP Pro, 10.2" LCD)
( 10.2in - Operating System: Windows XP )
The first one seemed great BUT 9.3 lbs H E A V Y!!! AND the reviewer said, it could not stay wireless connected for over 30 secs and that killed the deal to me.
3. Coice N10j-A2 Sacrificing the DVD-RW and larger screen, and faster processing, for the sake of 3 lbs weight, and long battery life is very tempting but disappointing in what it can do.
I am still undecided, the sacrifices if included will yield over 9 lbs weight in one and the other has no weight stated. I am still open to inputs if you know the weights of the models. Anyone know what the Asus 8N1 weighs?