I need some advice on a girl

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HiTek21

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Alright heres the situation. My ex broke up with me a little more than a month ago, strange situation I dunno how to describe it, but anyways we kinda apologized the other week for all the stuff that went on that lead to the break up. Before that little conversation we had last week I haven't spoken to her since which is over a month. The last conversation we had she wanted to come visit me this winter like she had planned before we broke up and she was being all nice and stuff.
I dunno what is going on in her mind, wondering if she wants to get back together or just be friends... I have no clue... Shes online right now haven't started talking shes been on for awhile, should I message her first or just go to bed and wait for another day?

BTW in case this makes no sense it was a long distance relationship, I live in Cali and she lives in Hawaii..
 
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SuepaFly

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Do it if you can handle being around her and not be with her, or if "friends with benefits" doesn't sound so bad. Or else 80% chance you're setting yourself up for something you may not want.
 
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Tsaico

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i say toss the girl. Besides, if she is hawaii, then it is doomed to fail. There are few relationships that can last over long distance, let alone an ocean. This is where we all start saying things like, "Don't worry, there are other fish in the sea", "She was't your true love", "We didn't really like her anyways", and "you can do better". Hope some those help. If you would like for her to visit, then by all means, do not cancel the show. And if something happens, then enjoy the show. The biggest problem with "friends with benefits" is that eventually on e of you will develop feelings/still have them. And if the other doesn't feel the same way, then it really isn't healthy. So i say move on.
 
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white

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i say to ignore her online and go to bed. this isn't worth the frustration. as for what she wants, who knows? but don't expect anything. don't do anything to make her want to come back. if she does, great. if not, you weren't hoping for it anyway. do not set yourself up for disappointment.
 
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