Just wanted to post back that the switch to my niece was a total hit. I think she mainly got a few adult gifts and cash for a laptop she wants, so a "fun" gift is just what she needed. The whole family talked about it.
All the other gifts turned out ok. I think I'm going to go back to my old method of preparing a little further in advance next year. I hate being up against the wall trying to figure it out.
Tip for future gift giving. When in doubt, ask people what they want! Older people might put you off at first but ask again & you will often get a list of things to choose from.
I will be 64 next month, cancer has slowed my physical capabilities but my interests haven’t really changed. I love tech toys that make my life easier, chemo port friendly warm tops & hoodies, easy to slip on yoga pants in business colors, simple shoes with grippy soles, a decent shower chair that doesn’t break, microfiber hair towels, loose warm socks, chocolate, toys for my cats, donations to my favorite charity e/books subscriptions to services that make my life easier, heck send me a funny meme regularly, laughter is always good around here.
Possible gifts are endless and come in all price ranges! Some favorites from my life this year? Middle daughter gifted me a virtual trip to Japan, I have teas, soups, snacks ( I adore tea cakes) we have a board game my son & I will figure out how to play. Good lip balms from a work friend, gift cards that help bring down the cost of groceries being delivered. An ebook with the promise of starting a private book club to discuss each book we chose to read.
My favorites involve spending a bit of time with my family and friends, even if it’s just virtually. Hearing my daughter’s thoughts on books is delightful ( English Major) & actually being forced to thinking about things besides cancer can’t be beat.