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bigrash

Lifer
Feb 20, 2001
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man, it's been a week and a half for me. i'm dying here. can't wait for tomorrow :)
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: SMOGZINN
Originally posted by: gigapet
I was thinking just the opposite. Society has very little influence of me in general, If I want something I generally do it regardless. The reason I choose not to reporduce now is directly linked to providing the best chance of successful propagation of future generations. For example in ten years the lifestyle i'll be able to provide for my children will be of superior quality than now. I will be able to offer the the best opportunities for growing up in a positive environment, provide the best schooling, and over all a higher possiblity that my offspring will develope into desirable adults that will again have plenty of opportunity to pass on there genes. Yes it sounds a bit elitist but hey lets not pretend this is a classless society.

Hmm, it does not seem to me like any of that actually matters in propagation. I have known some VERY poor people that have out propagated any of my rich friends by a very large factor. In fact, I would say that if you want to ensure the continuation of your genetic heritage then you want to be as poor as possible in America.

I do not wish to dilute the quality of my genes otherwise I'd be in the trailer park right now smashing every tramp in site. Quality > quantity IMO
 

shud

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Mar 24, 2003
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Does anyone think that your location/living situation has to do with the amount of opportunity you have to "meet people"?

Just wondering. At my school, it seems like A LOT (and I'm tempted to even say a great majority) of people are already involved in a relationship. Say what you will about "stealing" someone's gilrfriend/boyfriend, in general those people are off limits. I don't have time to go to bars off campus where there are lots of singles nor do I really want to do that at this point. It seems like every girl I meet already has a boyfriend.

It just seems as if it would be so much easier if I went to a huge school with tons of people. Maybe it's just an anomally at this particular school. My mom always asks me "why don't you have a girlfriend?" The honest answer is somewhere between a) I have no skills with females and b) I just don't know any single females that I would be interested in.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: shud
Does anyone think that your location/living situation has to do with the amount of opportunity you have to "meet people"?

Just wondering. At my school, it seems like A LOT (and I'm tempted to even say a great majority) of people are already involved in a relationship. Say what you will about "stealing" someone's gilrfriend/boyfriend, in general those people are off limits. I don't have time to go to bars off campus where there are lots of singles nor do I really want to do that at this point. It seems like every girl I meet already has a boyfriend.

It just seems as if it would be so much easier if I went to a huge school with tons of people. Maybe it's just an anomally at this particular school. My mom always asks me "why don't you have a girlfriend?" The honest answer is somewhere between a) I have no skills with females and b) I just don't know any single females that I would be interested in.

lots of rationalizing your failure here. Change your attitude.

You have a negative thought pattern that is quite alarming.

If you insist on rationalizing anything regarding this instead of going out into the field and approaching then at the very least rationalize to yourself all the reasons why you deserve success with women and all the opportunities that do exist to meet and attract a women that meets your criteria.

as of right now if you continue this destructive thought patter you are just mind fvcking yourself into perpetual failure and unhappiness with women.
 

SMOGZINN

Lifer
Jun 17, 2005
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Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: SMOGZINN
Originally posted by: gigapet
I was thinking just the opposite. Society has very little influence of me in general, If I want something I generally do it regardless. The reason I choose not to reporduce now is directly linked to providing the best chance of successful propagation of future generations. For example in ten years the lifestyle i'll be able to provide for my children will be of superior quality than now. I will be able to offer the the best opportunities for growing up in a positive environment, provide the best schooling, and over all a higher possiblity that my offspring will develope into desirable adults that will again have plenty of opportunity to pass on there genes. Yes it sounds a bit elitist but hey lets not pretend this is a classless society.

Hmm, it does not seem to me like any of that actually matters in propagation. I have known some VERY poor people that have out propagated any of my rich friends by a very large factor. In fact, I would say that if you want to ensure the continuation of your genetic heritage then you want to be as poor as possible in America.

I do not wish to dilute the quality of my genes otherwise I'd be in the trailer park right now smashing every tramp in site. Quality > quantity IMO

And right there is the social pressure that natural selection is useing to weed you out.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: SMOGZINN
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: SMOGZINN
Originally posted by: gigapet
I was thinking just the opposite. Society has very little influence of me in general, If I want something I generally do it regardless. The reason I choose not to reporduce now is directly linked to providing the best chance of successful propagation of future generations. For example in ten years the lifestyle i'll be able to provide for my children will be of superior quality than now. I will be able to offer the the best opportunities for growing up in a positive environment, provide the best schooling, and over all a higher possiblity that my offspring will develope into desirable adults that will again have plenty of opportunity to pass on there genes. Yes it sounds a bit elitist but hey lets not pretend this is a classless society.

Hmm, it does not seem to me like any of that actually matters in propagation. I have known some VERY poor people that have out propagated any of my rich friends by a very large factor. In fact, I would say that if you want to ensure the continuation of your genetic heritage then you want to be as poor as possible in America.

I do not wish to dilute the quality of my genes otherwise I'd be in the trailer park right now smashing every tramp in site. Quality > quantity IMO

And right there is the social pressure that natural selection is useing to weed you out.

not societal pressure. There is less surivability in having 10 handicapped/deformed children vs. 1 child of exceptional quality.

lower quality genes within a species will according to darwin be phased out eventually, because, being that they are low quality the survivability and opportunities for reporduction will be less than offspring with higher quality genes....perhaps you are thinking short term.
 

SMOGZINN

Lifer
Jun 17, 2005
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Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: shud
Does anyone think that your location/living situation has to do with the amount of opportunity you have to "meet people"?

Just wondering. At my school, it seems like A LOT (and I'm tempted to even say a great majority) of people are already involved in a relationship. Say what you will about "stealing" someone's gilrfriend/boyfriend, in general those people are off limits. I don't have time to go to bars off campus where there are lots of singles nor do I really want to do that at this point. It seems like every girl I meet already has a boyfriend.

It just seems as if it would be so much easier if I went to a huge school with tons of people. Maybe it's just an anomally at this particular school. My mom always asks me "why don't you have a girlfriend?" The honest answer is somewhere between a) I have no skills with females and b) I just don't know any single females that I would be interested in.

lots of rationalizing your failure here. Change your attitude.

You have a negative thought pattern that is quite alarming.

If you insist on rationalizing anything regarding this instead of going out into the field and approaching then at the very least rationalize to yourself all the reasons why you deserve success with women and all the opportunities that do exist to meet and attract a women that meets your criteria.

as of right now if you continue this destructive thought patter you are just mind fvcking yourself into perpetual failure and unhappiness with women.

gigapet, while you have the right concept, all you end up doing is being is insulting without actually saying anything useful.


shud, this is a choice. Each day of your life you make the choice to wait for some magical coincidence to happen and hope that a girl falls in your lap. It might just happen, it does for many people, but you have to just sit around and wait for you to win that lottery, and then take what ever the mystical coincidence deals out to you.
Or, you could make your mind up to take a proactive role in your life and go out and find a girlfriend. I can not guarantee that you will be able to find a girlfriend in any given timeframe, I can?t even guarantee that you would not find one faster by just waiting, but I can guarantee that your odds of doing so would be insanely better if you made the choice to make finding one your priority, and then went about doing what was necessary to accomplish that goal.
This is true for almost everything in life. If you want something do not wait around hoping it will happen, decide to pay the price for it. That price is almost always hard work and risk. We spend our lives so afraid of bad things that might happen that we never take the chance to earn the great things that could happen.
 

SMOGZINN

Lifer
Jun 17, 2005
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Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: SMOGZINN
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: SMOGZINN
Originally posted by: gigapet
I was thinking just the opposite. Society has very little influence of me in general, If I want something I generally do it regardless. The reason I choose not to reporduce now is directly linked to providing the best chance of successful propagation of future generations. For example in ten years the lifestyle i'll be able to provide for my children will be of superior quality than now. I will be able to offer the the best opportunities for growing up in a positive environment, provide the best schooling, and over all a higher possiblity that my offspring will develope into desirable adults that will again have plenty of opportunity to pass on there genes. Yes it sounds a bit elitist but hey lets not pretend this is a classless society.

Hmm, it does not seem to me like any of that actually matters in propagation. I have known some VERY poor people that have out propagated any of my rich friends by a very large factor. In fact, I would say that if you want to ensure the continuation of your genetic heritage then you want to be as poor as possible in America.

I do not wish to dilute the quality of my genes otherwise I'd be in the trailer park right now smashing every tramp in site. Quality > quantity IMO

And right there is the social pressure that natural selection is useing to weed you out.

not societal pressure. There is less surivability in having 10 handicapped/deformed children vs. 1 child of exceptional quality.

lower quality genes within a species will according to darwin be phased out eventually, because, being that they are low quality the survivability and opportunities for reporduction will be less than offspring with higher quality genes....perhaps you are thinking short term.


5 handicapped/deformed children and 5 normal (if poor) childern have a much greater chance of survivability then 1 exceptional child.
Half those genes are yours right, we would expect only half to be deformed from the touch of trailer park genes.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: SMOGZINN
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: SMOGZINN
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: SMOGZINN
Originally posted by: gigapet
I was thinking just the opposite. Society has very little influence of me in general, If I want something I generally do it regardless. The reason I choose not to reporduce now is directly linked to providing the best chance of successful propagation of future generations. For example in ten years the lifestyle i'll be able to provide for my children will be of superior quality than now. I will be able to offer the the best opportunities for growing up in a positive environment, provide the best schooling, and over all a higher possiblity that my offspring will develope into desirable adults that will again have plenty of opportunity to pass on there genes. Yes it sounds a bit elitist but hey lets not pretend this is a classless society.

Hmm, it does not seem to me like any of that actually matters in propagation. I have known some VERY poor people that have out propagated any of my rich friends by a very large factor. In fact, I would say that if you want to ensure the continuation of your genetic heritage then you want to be as poor as possible in America.

I do not wish to dilute the quality of my genes otherwise I'd be in the trailer park right now smashing every tramp in site. Quality > quantity IMO

And right there is the social pressure that natural selection is useing to weed you out.

not societal pressure. There is less surivability in having 10 handicapped/deformed children vs. 1 child of exceptional quality.

lower quality genes within a species will according to darwin be phased out eventually, because, being that they are low quality the survivability and opportunities for reporduction will be less than offspring with higher quality genes....perhaps you are thinking short term.


5 handicapped/deformed children and 5 normal (if poor) childern have a much greater chance of survivability then 1 exceptional child.
Half those genes are yours right, we would expect only half to be deformed from the touch of trailer park genes.

would you have the same answer if this scenario were in a thirld world country or a tribal community?
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: SMOGZINN
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: shud
Does anyone think that your location/living situation has to do with the amount of opportunity you have to "meet people"?

Just wondering. At my school, it seems like A LOT (and I'm tempted to even say a great majority) of people are already involved in a relationship. Say what you will about "stealing" someone's gilrfriend/boyfriend, in general those people are off limits. I don't have time to go to bars off campus where there are lots of singles nor do I really want to do that at this point. It seems like every girl I meet already has a boyfriend.

It just seems as if it would be so much easier if I went to a huge school with tons of people. Maybe it's just an anomally at this particular school. My mom always asks me "why don't you have a girlfriend?" The honest answer is somewhere between a) I have no skills with females and b) I just don't know any single females that I would be interested in.

lots of rationalizing your failure here. Change your attitude.

You have a negative thought pattern that is quite alarming.

If you insist on rationalizing anything regarding this instead of going out into the field and approaching then at the very least rationalize to yourself all the reasons why you deserve success with women and all the opportunities that do exist to meet and attract a women that meets your criteria.

as of right now if you continue this destructive thought patter you are just mind fvcking yourself into perpetual failure and unhappiness with women.

gigapet, while you have the right concept, all you end up doing is being is insulting without actually saying anything useful.


shud, this is a choice. Each day of your life you make the choice to wait for some magical coincidence to happen and hope that a girl falls in your lap. It might just happen, it does for many people, but you have to just sit around and wait for you to win that lottery, and then take what ever the mystical coincidence deals out to you.
Or, you could make your mind up to take a proactive role in your life and go out and find a girlfriend. I can not guarantee that you will be able to find a girlfriend in any given timeframe, I can?t even guarantee that you would not find one faster by just waiting, but I can guarantee that your odds of doing so would be insanely better if you made the choice to make finding one your priority, and then went about doing what was necessary to accomplish that goal.
This is true for almost everything in life. If you want something do not wait around hoping it will happen, decide to pay the price for it. That price is almost always hard work and risk. We spend our lives so afraid of bad things that might happen that we never take the chance to earn the great things that could happen.

sometimes you can't keep pussyfooting around, you need to say it how it is and explain that they are behaaving like whiney little b1tches. Maybe it will hurt there ego enough that they take action to change.

well at least now they have two people agreeing and saying essentially the same thing. Hopefully one or the other will get through.
 

Jon855

Golden Member
Mar 24, 2005
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Originally posted by: Eghck
Originally posted by: CrackaLackaZe
why asian

inquiring minds want to know.

Gee, why? Well to be honest, I think they are sexier than most other "race" and I really do love the color tone and the hair combination mostly. Not the sterotype "cuz they are tighter or whatso".

I just find them to be more attractive counterpart for me, it's quite hard to explain. Oh well... Just cuz I suppose.
 

MaxDepth

Diamond Member
Jun 12, 2001
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Originally posted by: bigrash
man, it's been a week and a half for me. i'm dying here. can't wait for tomorrow :)

What's tomorrow? The store restocks lube? County lock-up releases the drunk tank crowd? You go see your mom?
 

PimpJuice

Platinum Member
Feb 14, 2005
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Originally posted by: necine
In the past 5 years I've been single a total of about 2 months. I've probably had 10 different girlfriends in that time. Jesus there's something wrong with me.

yes, you are too cool.

 

CVSiN

Diamond Member
Jul 19, 2004
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Originally posted by: Random Variable
Originally posted by: Mojoed
It's been 19 months for me dude, I feel your pain.

...But I just saved a bunch of money on my car insurance by switching to Geico!
Fixed.

hahahahahaah
 

PimpJuice

Platinum Member
Feb 14, 2005
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Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: bmacd
you guys must be really ugly or not have any game! Get out there and find somebody if you really want to be with somebody! Fat and ugly girls need love too!

-=bmacd=-

they prefer whining online and rationalizing to themselves all the reasons why they can't find a woman.

The reason they are not having any luck has nothing to do with there appearance, it is because according to Darwing they DESERVE NOTHING in terms of opportunities to reproduce, and they are being WEEDED OUT.

Its ok though its better for humanity that there weak whiney b1tch genes are being weeded out darwin style.

sounds like you need to get laid....darwin style.

 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: PimpJuice
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: bmacd
you guys must be really ugly or not have any game! Get out there and find somebody if you really want to be with somebody! Fat and ugly girls need love too!

-=bmacd=-

they prefer whining online and rationalizing to themselves all the reasons why they can't find a woman.

The reason they are not having any luck has nothing to do with there appearance, it is because according to Darwing they DESERVE NOTHING in terms of opportunities to reproduce, and they are being WEEDED OUT.

Its ok though its better for humanity that there weak whiney b1tch genes are being weeded out darwin style.

sounds like you need to get laid....darwin style.

Can u be anymore lame?

you are too cool!
 

LordNoob

Senior member
Nov 16, 2003
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Originally posted by: shud
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: bmacd
you guys must be really ugly or not have any game! Get out there and find somebody if you really want to be with somebody! Fat and ugly girls need love too!

-=bmacd=-

they prefer whining online and rationalizing to themselves all the reasons why they can't find a woman.

The reason they are not having any luck has nothing to do with there appearance, it is because according to Darwing they DESERVE NOTHING in terms of opportunities to reproduce, and they are being WEEDED OUT.

Its ok though its better for humanity that there weak whiney b1tch genes are being weeded out darwin style.

According to Rawls this is totally bunk. We should all have girlfriends who are moderately attractive but don't look so great without makeup on.


LOL, so you are saying makeup is the veil of ignorance that moderately attractive women use to get us into the Rawls' Original Position?
 

Proletariat

Diamond Member
Dec 9, 2004
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Originally posted by: Jon855
Originally posted by: Eghck
Originally posted by: CrackaLackaZe
why asian

inquiring minds want to know.

Gee, why? Well to be honest, I think they are sexier than most other "race" and I really do love the color tone and the hair combination mostly. Not the sterotype "cuz they are tighter or whatso".

I just find them to be more attractive counterpart for me, it's quite hard to explain. Oh well... Just cuz I suppose.

So you're an ugly white guy?

:laugh:
 

PimpJuice

Platinum Member
Feb 14, 2005
2,051
1
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Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: PimpJuice
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: bmacd
you guys must be really ugly or not have any game! Get out there and find somebody if you really want to be with somebody! Fat and ugly girls need love too!

-=bmacd=-

they prefer whining online and rationalizing to themselves all the reasons why they can't find a woman.

The reason they are not having any luck has nothing to do with there appearance, it is because according to Darwing they DESERVE NOTHING in terms of opportunities to reproduce, and they are being WEEDED OUT.

Its ok though its better for humanity that there weak whiney b1tch genes are being weeded out darwin style.

sounds like you need to get laid....darwin style.

Can u be anymore lame?

you are too cool!

maybe if i whined about whiny people, i'd be the coolest like you.....gods gift to women.

yeah, probably not.

 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
10,005
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Originally posted by: PimpJuice
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: PimpJuice
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: bmacd
you guys must be really ugly or not have any game! Get out there and find somebody if you really want to be with somebody! Fat and ugly girls need love too!

-=bmacd=-

they prefer whining online and rationalizing to themselves all the reasons why they can't find a woman.

The reason they are not having any luck has nothing to do with there appearance, it is because according to Darwing they DESERVE NOTHING in terms of opportunities to reproduce, and they are being WEEDED OUT.

Its ok though its better for humanity that there weak whiney b1tch genes are being weeded out darwin style.

sounds like you need to get laid....darwin style.

Can u be anymore lame?

you are too cool!

maybe if i whined about whiny people, i'd be the coolest like you.....gods gift to women.

yeah, probably not.

:roll:
 

Jon855

Golden Member
Mar 24, 2005
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Originally posted by: Proletariat
Originally posted by: Jon855
Originally posted by: Eghck
Originally posted by: CrackaLackaZe
why asian

inquiring minds want to know.

Gee, why? Well to be honest, I think they are sexier than most other "race" and I really do love the color tone and the hair combination mostly. Not the sterotype "cuz they are tighter or whatso".

I just find them to be more attractive counterpart for me, it's quite hard to explain. Oh well... Just cuz I suppose.

So you're an ugly white guy?

:laugh:
I don't think so... Hmmies... Oh well... I can tell that you aren;t very supportive of anything that does not have to do with you.