I need a lesson in fun...

Electric Amish

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The wife and I are becoming "Fun impaired".

Give us some pointers on what to do before/after food and before/after sex for fun.

amish
 

khtm

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Before food - have sex
After food - have sex
Before sex - have sex
After sex - have sex

Works all the time! :D


-khtm-
 

KBrinks

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go to places that are fun like dave and busters or gameworks

or chuckey cheese

fun things to me are going things that are stupid and random...

(girls dont respect that :( ) hah
 

amnesiac

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movies (go OUT for one)
minigolf
beach
bowling
video games
concert
board games (scrabble night!)
shopping (wifey will LOVE you even more..)
driving (find a scenic route)
golf
people-watching (find a busy metro place or boardwalk and sit)
get some coffee
work out (get a gym membership together, go for a walk, bicycling...)
 

Electric Amish

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<< go to places that are fun like dave and busters or gameworks

or chuckey cheese

fun things to me are going things that are stupid and random...

(girls dont respect that :( ) hah
>>



I've thought of that, but there are 2 problems.

They don't have those here (Utah) and the wife doesn't like video games... :(

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Elita1

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Play games together!

Regular board or card games as well as...well you know! things like strip poker or Sensuopoly or something;)

It's a lot of fun, but mind you there are repercussions!(pats pregnant belly)

Edit: Amnesiac has some great suggestions as well
 

rahvin

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Amish,

Go visit All for Love on 30th and Main. :) Take the wife along, maybe you can find something fun. :)
 

Electric Amish

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Bowling is good. We need to do that more.

We play some card games occasionally.

Movies would be good if they'd release anything that's worth watching.

No beaches here.

Minigolf...I don't know if she'd go for that or not. She's not big on games (I'm surprised she'll bowl with me).

Golf....well the weather is turning here, so it's kinda out. I love golf, but I can't get her to play... :(

No video games (see above post)

Concerts are too expensive and are tastes are too different.

She can't workout due to her headaches.

Shopping is too expensive and she hates shopping when she can't buy anything. This also gets into her "I'm Fat" paranoia as well. ;)

Coffee...I hate coffee... :)

We people watch a lot wherever we go...

amish
 

Electric Amish

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<< Amish,

Go visit All for Love on 30th and Main. :) Take the wife along, maybe you can find something fun. :)
>>



Yeah, I just heard an ad on the radio for them. We went over to Doc Johnson's in Midvale a few weeks ago, but they aren't allowed to sell a lot of things due to the city ordinances.. :(

We were disappointed. ;)

amish
 

Electric Amish

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<< become swingers.

*kat. <-- worked for her friends parents.
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Another idea that I'm all for, but brings up her "I'm fat, I'm ugly" paranoia. :(

Also remember that this is Utah so I don't know how prevelent that kind of sexual deviency is. ;)




Do ya' see why this is so difficult? ;)

amish
 

gopunk

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fun things to me are going things that are stupid and random...

(girls dont respect that :( ) hah


AMEN. people wonder why i don't have a girlfriend... it's because i'm still looking for one that enjoys stupid and random stuff.
 

rahvin

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<<Yeah, I just heard an ad on the radio for them. We went over to Doc Johnson's in Midvale a few weeks ago, but they aren't allowed to sell a lot of things due to the city ordinances.. >>

Doc Johnson's is PATHETIC, Blue Boutique is PATHETIC. Visit All for Love, you will be impressed (and maybe disgusted all at the same time). :)
 

Electric Amish

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<< how about taking shooting lessons?

you could go camping?
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We really need to go shooting. Unfortunately the majority of ranges around here are outdoors and that isn't conducive with night and the current winter weather.

We do camp occasionally. Again we've hit the weather restriction..

amish
 

Electric Amish

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I like the Blue Boutique. So does the wife. Unfortunately we always want to spend too much money there...and it kinda gets that same "I'm Fat, I'm Ugly" thingy going for her.

I'll have to suggest All for love. :)

amish
 

rahvin

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Blue Boutique was ok, it had very very limited selection when I was there. Blue probably has better clothes selection (that's debateable though). All for Love on the other hand has a much much better selection in other areas and the prices are better if I remember right. In addition All for Love has a lot more kinky stuff than Blue would ever stock. If you go, make sure and explore the whole store including the area back around the wall. ;)

I remember the stink that it caused when All for Love opened, he got publicity like no one else and South Salt Lake couldn't stop him like midvale did Doc.
 

jlee75

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Fun thing to do....

Make fun of each other and see how long it takes for one to get upset! ;) Go with the [woman's voice] I'm ugly, I'm fat [/woman's voice] :D

You could have people over you know. Board games are more fun that way. Card games are more fun. Ever think about role playing? Role playing for an entire day! :D Like do some nasty calls during the day. Pretend you're completely someone else. And really try and get into it. It was fun for me when I tried it before. :D
 

rahvin

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<<Hehehe... You sound like a regular. If I mention your name do I get a discount??? >>

Not a regular by any means. I'm way to cheap. :) I just have a nice kinky side I've been nurturing for a few years. ;)
 

THELAIR

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If she has that whole "im fat" attitude, then go to the root of hte problem. EXCERCISE!!

get a membership for a gym, but do it TOGETHER... work as a team... encouraging each other, otherwise she will think your cruel :). Work an hour every other day and things will improve, after the first month of pain, you will get more energy, vitality and hopefully your limbido will increase too!!

 

tmv22

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pix???

haha. im kidding. im only kidding. so how long have u two been married/been together?