I Messed Up Again

[HiTek21]

I was dating this girl, kinda long distance relationship. I went out to visit her couple of times and everything was fine. We were good together you know we liked a lot of the same things. After I got back from visiting her, I realized that she had done some things to make me mad and so we got into an argument and broke up. Now a month later here I am starting to realized that I got mad over something stupid and am regretting it.. I miss her but I doubt she even cares. Should I tell her I'm sorry and hope she'll take me back or should I just forget it?? I need your opinions.

 

[Orsorum]

Elaborate. How old are you, how old is she? Were either of you in any previous relationships right before this? Have either of you been in any since then?

 

[gopunk]

well yes and yes.

i think you should tell her what you just told us, let her know you want her back, then try and forget about her (ie, don't get your hopes up).

 

[dakata24]

what was the argument about?

 

[AlphaWolf829]

Does she seem like a forgiving person?

 

[gopunk]

Originally posted by: AlphaWolf829
Does she seem like a forgiving person?

or is she the type that would act like she forgave you, take you home, tie you to the bedpost, then leave you there?

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: gopunk

Originally posted by: AlphaWolf829
Does she seem like a forgiving person?

or is she the type that would act like she forgave you, take you home, tie you to the bedpost, then leave you there?

Funny you should ask...

 

[HiTek21]

Well we're both 20 years old, and she lives in Hawaii and I live in Cali so you get the idea of how hard it is for the both of us.
We got into a couple of different arguments. I flew out to visit her on her birthday as kind of a surprise, and every time we would go out she'd always invite her friends and she would never tell me what we were going to do until it was time for us to do it. Just kind of irritating when her friends are always around complaining about what to do and so forth.

 

[gopunk]

Originally posted by: HiTek21
Well we're both 20 years old, and she lives in Hawaii and I live in Cali so you get the idea of how hard it is for the both of us.
We got into a couple of different arguments. I flew out to visit her on her birthday as kind of a surprise, and every time we would go out she'd always invite her friends and she would never tell me what we were going to do until it was time for us to do it. Just kind of irritating when her friends are always around complaining about what to do and so forth.

mmm oh well in that case, good riddence ld sucks.

 

[Kadarin]

Sounds like her friends are more important to her than you are, given that she didn't seem to want to spend time alone with you, and that she'd wait on finalizing plans for the evening until she found out what they were doing. Like others have said, you might want to let her know how you feel, and go from there. But don't expect her to fall all over you.

Looking at the big picture, if the worst happens, it may hurt now, but in the long run it'll work out better for you.