i made this girl really pissed at me, what can i do to make it better?

[Omegachi]

i said some mean things about her and her best friend... and i really hurt her feelings this time. I think i lost her trust and she don't want to talk to me anymore. i still want to be friends... what can i do to make things better? i have apologized already, many times...

oh btw, this is a YAGT...

 

[shimsham]

just let it go. act like you dont give a sh!t, and shell come crawling back. sad but true.

 

[KK]

We can't very well tell you what to do if you don't tell us exactly what you said.

 

[EvilYoda]

lol, you're fvcked.

well, technically, you're not.

 

[Lola]

send her her favorite flowers and a very heartfelt and open card.
It might cost a little $$, but if you really want to keep a good friendship, sometimes thats what you gotta do.
Don't hound her with calling, just send her taht stuff and then ask her to give you one more chance...

 

[Looney]

'this time'? So you've done it before? Sounds like she realizes your friendship isn't worth it.

 

[FlyLice]

there are plenty of Bees and Hoez out there.

 

[artikk]

put YAGT in the title
You can start by letting time heal the wounds of a broken relationship. After letting things cool off for about 2-6 months, talk to her. I guarantee, you'll get a different response.
If that doesn't work, don't bother. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

 

[HardcoreRobot]

good for her

 

[Papagayo]

Give her money..

 

[imported_Tomato]

Because you were insensitive, you now have to be incredibly oversensitive, open about your emotions, and brutally honest. If she still doesn't want to have anything to do with you, at least you put everything out there and tried your best. If she does value you as a friend/person in her life, she'll probably reconsider once you show how genuinely sorry/apologetic you are.

 

[DaTT]

Originally posted by: shimsham
just let it go. act like you dont give a sh!t, and shell come crawling back. sad but true.

Read quote......but also, what is it you said?

 

[ITJunkie]

Originally posted by: shimsham
just let it go. act like you dont give a sh!t, and shell come crawling back. sad but true.

Lykus 101...

 

[Doboji]

Originally posted by: Omegachi
i said some mean things about her and her best friend... and i really hurt her feelings this time. I think i lost her trust and she don't want to talk to me anymore. i still want to be friends... what can i do to make things better? i have apologized already, many times...

oh btw, this is a YAGT...

The real answer:

It's going to take time. Send her an email or voicemail or letter indicating something like the following:

I know that I hurt you, I know that I am an asshole. I am so sorry, and I am sick that my stupidity has probably lost the friendship and trust of someone I care so much about. I know you probably won't want to talk to me again, and I deserve it, just know that I know how much of a fool I am, and I will always care about you.

then leave it alone. Every few weeks, send her another email simply indicating that you miss her. DONOT stalk her... if she demands you go away, then go away... and do not contact her again. But more likely that won't happen, and gradually she will let you back in.

-Max

 

[shimsham]

why is everyone telling him to suck her ass? we dont even know what was said or why he said it. she may have been running her mouth and "deserved" it.

 

[chowmein]

uh when in doubt?....

 

[Doboji]

Originally posted by: shimsham
why is everyone telling him to suck her ass? we dont even know what was said or why he said it. she may have been running her mouth and "deserved" it.

He knew he was wrong or he wouldn't have started this thread

-Max

 

[CHfan4ever]

Do a monkey dance in front of her.It is always working

 

[shimsham]

Originally posted by: Doboji

Originally posted by: shimsham
why is everyone telling him to suck her ass? we dont even know what was said or why he said it. she may have been running her mouth and "deserved" it.

He knew he was wrong or he wouldn't have started this thread

-Max

fair enough. but its rare that 2 parties do not share the blame in a situation like this. either way, its best to just let it go. he apologized, and thats all he can do without becoming a spineless pile of a whipping boy.

 

[Baked]

Just move on and don't waste your money. There's nothing going between you two, and there won't be in the future. You're on her assholes list.

 

[Attrox]

Originally posted by: chowmein
uh when in doubt?....

Whip it out?

Stick out your butt?

Stick out your left hand?