Ok, well last week I was talking about how my gf told me she wanted me to make a move, and well last weekend we hung out, and basically I made a move; but seeing as how lately she's been hanging out alot more often with this other guy, who's like her family's friend, because his dad's dieing; both of the time's we hung out he was there too.
But basically I didn't let that get in my way, she was making motions at me, and wanted to fool around (footsie) while we played scrabble, so I played along, then the next night, while we watched a movie, due to seating constraints I sat on the floor, but was thus able to rub her feet for her a bit. Well then she tells me (monday night) that the other dude was saying stuff about what I was doing with her. That he fealt I was on his "turf" She asked me just to not be so forward next time the 3 of us hang out together.
But she also kept asking me how I could have feelings for her, after I've known her such a short time. and other stuff like, "you're only 18, I want you to get to know me, I don't want you to make the wrong desicion this early in life."
It scares me. I know very little detials about her sure, but I've learned who SHE is. I can see her personality, I understand her to her core. I've got this way about people, I can read them like a book, and well as I do most good books, I've devoured her. Studied in my head her responses to things, and I know why I like her, and it feels totally right to me. I'm not saying I'm the perfect guy for her, there's probly better guy. But when she smiles, I can see how her minds working. If she's sad, it hurts... but i know why pretty much without asking. all the stuff she doesn't say.
But what I'm getting at is though I'd be able to be her friend if she fealt some one else was more right, and I can definitly read that she'd like me to be the right guy, she's hinted at it, and i can read it in her face she knows I'd be worth bothering with; I really think that the aformentioned guy, who is 24, is giving her thoughts that I wouldn't be mature enough for her needs. Personally, I believe I could do it, and my closest friends know that I'm far more mature and capable mentally for any thing this world has to throw against me I've yet to be able to show her that side of me. I'm at a loss, that guy is definitly trying to weasle his way in. And right now though, she's not taking any guy seriously. but I feel if I don't stop this downward spiral of her opinion of me know, when she is ready for things, it'll be too late to correct the damage he's caused to her view of me.
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But basically I didn't let that get in my way, she was making motions at me, and wanted to fool around (footsie) while we played scrabble, so I played along, then the next night, while we watched a movie, due to seating constraints I sat on the floor, but was thus able to rub her feet for her a bit. Well then she tells me (monday night) that the other dude was saying stuff about what I was doing with her. That he fealt I was on his "turf" She asked me just to not be so forward next time the 3 of us hang out together.
But she also kept asking me how I could have feelings for her, after I've known her such a short time. and other stuff like, "you're only 18, I want you to get to know me, I don't want you to make the wrong desicion this early in life."
It scares me. I know very little detials about her sure, but I've learned who SHE is. I can see her personality, I understand her to her core. I've got this way about people, I can read them like a book, and well as I do most good books, I've devoured her. Studied in my head her responses to things, and I know why I like her, and it feels totally right to me. I'm not saying I'm the perfect guy for her, there's probly better guy. But when she smiles, I can see how her minds working. If she's sad, it hurts... but i know why pretty much without asking. all the stuff she doesn't say.
But what I'm getting at is though I'd be able to be her friend if she fealt some one else was more right, and I can definitly read that she'd like me to be the right guy, she's hinted at it, and i can read it in her face she knows I'd be worth bothering with; I really think that the aformentioned guy, who is 24, is giving her thoughts that I wouldn't be mature enough for her needs. Personally, I believe I could do it, and my closest friends know that I'm far more mature and capable mentally for any thing this world has to throw against me I've yet to be able to show her that side of me. I'm at a loss, that guy is definitly trying to weasle his way in. And right now though, she's not taking any guy seriously. but I feel if I don't stop this downward spiral of her opinion of me know, when she is ready for things, it'll be too late to correct the damage he's caused to her view of me.
welp anylyze this thanks
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