You didn't say exactly what rdram 800 you have or what size & speed? Is it 800-40ns or 800-45ns? What manufacturer? What size modules? ECC or non-ECC?
Yes, it could make a big difference in choosing your 850E board.
I will say that my old board, Abit TH7II (850), OCed great with Samsung ECC rdram 800-45, 512MB modules, both 4X & 3X along with fixed pci/agp bus values were selectable in Bios menu. It was possible to OC easily an extra 400 or more Mhz on AIR cool. I used P4s, 2.0, 2.2, 2.4, 2.53. Actually, the 2.2Ghzer was incredible, the 2.4 very disappointing.
Next, the interesting part. I got a hold of 1066 drcgs from TI & had them professionally soldered into the TH7II board, replacing the lower clocked ICS drcgs. In spite of not having the best possible bios (Abit hasn't upgraded bios for 533 bus or 1066 timings.), the same rdram memory performed even better, & came very close to a stable 3Ghz with a 2.2cpu & easily hit over 3ghz with a 2.53, AIR COOL ONLY. (& Forget the 2.4)
This little exercise answered the question for me. Yes, rdram 800 does work well with the 850E chipset. So, you can start with the 800, you have now, upgrade later, when much better yields of 1066 or 1200 will be available.
The catch is, Kingston rdram doesn't act right on the Abit TH7II, many problems. Samsung rdram seems to work best in this scenerio. I really believe the ECC helps for more stable OCing. Some will say, "there is more OC headroom" using non-ECC. In my testing, that extra headroom was not worth the added instability, at whatever FSB, you're trying to achieve.
A final word concerns the slot configuration used. Whenever using slots1&2 with rdram & slots 3&4 with crimms, that produced highest bandwidth peformance, no question, especially with the rdram 800 as opposed to the 1066.
Now, using Gigabyte 8IHXP board with Kingston ECC 1066-32 rdram, 2X256MB modules.
Currently run very stable at FSB 150: 13798 3D marks
When using the ECC Samsung 800-45 rdram, with this board, it's possible to run stable at FSB 156 with AIR COOL, something not possible with the normal original drcgs of the TH7II on AIR ! 2.53@fsb156 & Samsung 800-45 rdram as described produced: 13025 3D marks!
If I had known the ECC Samsung 800-45 worked so well in a 850E board, I wouldn't have bothered to get the 1066, but all this really came to light through testing, having both 800 & 1066 rdrams & actually 3 boards (8IHXP, TH7II, TH7II-drcgs mod).
There you have it. By the end of the year, I suspect we'll finally get some high yield Samsung 1066 rdram, which can only improve matters. With good 800 & the right board, you can aford to wait for the best 1066 rdram later on.
OCZ 800 or 1066 rdram doesn't work right on many boards, including the GA-8IHXP & TH7II.