Originally posted by: Tuktuk
Originally posted by: jemcam
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: jemcam
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
I don't think I drink too much. But how do you know? Where's that line you cross?
Denial is common among alcoholics. I'm NOT saying you are because I don't know your circumstances. I suggest this:
20 questions
Seriously, PM me.
Only # 15 and 16.
While I am no counselor, I do know a few things about alcoholism. Keep an eye on it and be aware that alcoholism is a progressive disease.
Like I said above, if you can stop after having a few, you're doing great. If you can't stop yourself and have to keep chasing that buzz, then you need help.
If I answered yes to half of the questions, am I an alcoholic?
Pfft! According to "the experts" if you answer "yes" to ONE of those questions, you MAY have a problem. :roll:
I drink alone more than half the time. Know why? BECAUSE I LIVE ALONE!!! And HATE bars b/c they are full of smoke. I don't smoke, can't stand the smell and how it stinks up my clothes, my hair and everything else when I'm around it. In my younger years, I LIVED at bars/nightclubs. I grew out of that stage a long time ago. If had a quarter for every dollar I left on the bar b/t 1985-1996, I'd have an easy $5K in my pocket.
I also usually do NOT socialize w/people I work with. It's a bad idea and will only lead to "he said she said" and people talking about you behind your back. My work life is work, my private life is private. Better that way.
Now, if it's a special occasion, someone got promoted or something, I'll go have ONE with them, but then I'm out. I do go to house parties ocassionally, but only if there is a DD that will drive me home. I don't drink and drive (anymore

) and I don't like "sleeping over." Good parties w/DD's are rare these days. And a REAL DD; not the guy who is the least drunk. :roll:
Anyway, if you HAVE to drink every day, you have a problem. If you HAVE to get blind drunk and pass out every time you drink, you have a problem. If you would rather drink alone than socialize with a group, you have a problem. If you have to have a drink upon waking up to "steady the nerves" you have a problem. I could go on, but you get the idea.