i want to buy a video card off a guy on the fs/t forums, but he doesn't have any refs. I understand he would be wary of sending out his stuff to a stranger so he suggested a COD. It sounds like a good solution, but i think i may have a slight problem. I live at a dorm, so all the mail goes to the mailroom, which is run by the people there. Will i be able to have special instructions? i don't think i can have the mailroom pay for me. any ideas on what i can do?