i hate my roommate (rant)

Daishiki

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omg, i have an inconsiderate, pu$$y, dumba$$ for a roommate. i've had it up to here after tonite. i mean, i try to talk to him and stuff, but he never talks much. i say goodbye when i leave, but he just leaves without saying a word. ONE time he said bye, and i was like "whoa..." i can't blame him for this, but his mom is annoying. she calls so much. when he's on the phone with her, he's always whining like a 5 year old. he brings his geeky friends over and they make a ruckus over the stupidest things. they're loud as heck too. what really pissed me off tonite was that i was on the phone with my gf. he knows that i'm on the phone, but as soon as i'm there he decides to turn on his music to a level where i have to ask my gf to repeat everything she says and i have to repeat myself too. i mean, when his mom calls, i turn down my music. when his friends are over, i turn down my music. if his mom's so strict why didn't she teach him a damn thing about courtesy. i was lying in bed trying to sleep and he turns on the light. kay, i can deal with that. but then he starts beating his clothes on something and makes a bunch of noise that nobody could sleep through. the other day my magazines were out of order. "someone" was looking through my maxims. he leaves his shoes and socks in the middle of the floor. oh man, and i haven't even mention this girl he likes. he doesn't talk to me about it, but he bothers my friends on my floor about it, cuz they're girls. he has no balls to ask her out, which has been for at least 10 weeks now. he can't even say "sweet dreams" to her. he has his friends come over to tell her what to say to her, but he doesn't listen to them. i was there when he asked his friend like 20 times to let him borrow his car. everytime he said no and never. i just can't concentrate with the idiot sitting behind me, always having his music a notch louder than mine. oh yea, and he was showing the poster i had in my closet to people. i don't open his damn closet wihtout his permission. the fact that i'm sore from running 3 miles and swimming for 20 min right after doesn't make my mood much better. i'm stressed, angry, and worried. oh man, valentines day is coming up and i have an essay due the next day. and now i just learned that my econ teacher from last year has prostate cancer. damnit. sux0r for me. i'm sorry if i've made anyone read to this far. i just had to let out some steam. i will make him pay.... before the school year is through....
ps. please disregard spelling/grammatical errors. :|
 

DanJ

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Oct 15, 1999
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Perhaps you should talk to him about *this* and not just stuff like saying goodbye when you leave.

A 1:1 might be needed if you want to stay sane
 

AnthraX101

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I like my roomate, we get along well...

and who gave you permision to post, brad? ;) You sound just like (well, your situation sounds like) a friend of mine, Brad.

Armani
 

Ns1

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kick his ass!

you go to uci, i'm sure you can find some asian mafia guys or something to show em how it's done ;)
 

jinduy

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why...how come you've never told me about htis Daishi? I'm moving out first thing next month.
 

dafatha00

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why don't you TALK to him? that's usually the best thing to do rather than just complain. if he doesn't listen, then you make him pay.
 

Ranger X

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I have roommates but I have my own room so I'm semi-happy. I feel your pain because I had a roommate last year who I shared a room with who was VERY inconsiderate. He would play his music loud when I'm studying and I would ask him to turn it down. He'll barely touch the knob so the music is STILL loud. I exit the room all pissed and he doesn't understand why I was mad. Sometimes he'll be sitting there reading some crap on the web and he starts laughing out loud while I'm studying or sleeping. I ask him to keep the noise down and he continues to do it. He was such a moron! My roommate last year had no life so he stayed in his room 24/7. It just bothered me whenever he didn't get the hint.

Where are you living DaiSHi? On campus housing or IAC piece of sh** rip-off apartments?
 

Mookow

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Apr 24, 2001
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Look. You are both guys. Get into a brawl, beat the shizz out of each other, and you'll either kill each other off, or you'll feel better about each other afterwards. Either way, problem solved.
 

Dragnov

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Damn. From my last year dorm life at UCI, it seems like either they do a good job of matching people, or a completely horrible one. You're one of those unlucky folks.

Shitty IAC apartments... don't live in Cornell folks... the walls are thin that you can hear people talking normally through the wall easily, the rooms are tiny, downstairs is always freezing, the hot water runs out always, etc. I'm moving the Newport North next year w/ like 2 other ppl... less people, more space, better place.

And to all you ricers.... DONT F*CKIN HONK YOUR HORN AT NIGHT CALLING YOUR GANGSTER B*TCH TO COME OUTSIDE. :|
 

Mitzi

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Look. You are both guys. Get into a brawl, beat the shizz out of each other

For some reason that mad me giggle :D

Seriously though, just talk to him and if that fails THEN just give him a thump.
 

Anghang

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i live alone, and love it...had a roommate once, wasn't all that bad...i feel for you man...
so is this a dorm?...if so, talk to him about the issues at hand..if they can't be resolved, submit for a change of roommates or change of rooms...all your points here are pretty valid...

good luck... :)
 

Omegachi

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you should give him dirty lickins....beat his ass down and then he'll be your bitch
 

AnimeKnight

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Shitty IAC apartments... don't live in Cornell folks... the walls are thin that you can hear people talking normally through the wall easily, the rooms are tiny, downstairs is always freezing, the hot water runs out always, etc. I'm moving the Newport North next year w/ like 2 other ppl... less people, more space, better place.

And to all you ricers.... DONT F*CKIN HONK YOUR HORN AT NIGHT CALLING YOUR GANGSTER B*TCH TO COME OUTSIDE.


LOL so true so true.. I used to be able to hear my neighbors "doing it" :(
 

atom

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It doesn't seem like you are asserting yourself. If his music is loud when you are talking to the GF, just straight up say, "Turn that sh!t down." If he starts being loud late at night say, "WTF man I'm tryin to sleep here."

He's probably doing all this crap even though it annoys you because he knows you won't complain.
 

shurato

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Try talking to him over a beer or something non chalantly(sp?) Dont just come out and start complaining left and right. If he doesn't listen, beat him up...if that doesn't work...wipe his toothbrush in the toilet after you flushed it from a big dump...if that doesn't make you happy...well...get creative...its WAR...take no prisoners.
btw i live with my best friend and couldnt be happier. i let him know whats bothering me freely and he listens, as does he. of course it could be a nightmare also for alot of people living with best friends.
 

Buzzman151

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<< roomates suck, been livin alone for 2 years now >>



don't do anything like that..... its hella better to get a roommate... talk to him or just kick his ass... he'll get the picture.....
 

Pastfinder

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<----at UNC-CH. I have been there. My roommate from last year was near
identical, but was homely as sin and resembled someone who walked out of Dachau. He didn't bath, didn't talk to me, was an utter slob and a lazy P.O.S. My opinion is to talk to the housing folks and get out of Dodge. Or just find a way to embarrass him to the extent that he leaves the dorm for good. Like taking his towels when he is in the shower, then lock him out of the room without clothes. :D
 

yobarman

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my roommate moved out a couple months ago, so i've been alone ever since. he was cool as hell though, so we got along

everytime i had beef with him i just told him. He got these shoes that just reeked so i just said "those shoes can't sleep with us tonight" and i took em outside haha.