I guess sex can be a very emotional thing for females...

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shadow9d9

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Originally posted by: ProfJohn
Is it possible that she is upset about having sex out of marriage?

I have a female friend who was trying to "save" herself for marriage, although she has not been a virgin since high school, however she had sex with her last boyfriend and was very upset about it. Was one of the reasons she ended the relationship with him.

Perhaps having sex goes against her value, but she feels like she "has" to in order to keep your relationship?

BTW: Nice to see there are some ladies out there, or else guys using female avatars... hmmmmm


That is probably one of the most stupid things I've ever read here.
 

Todd33

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Originally posted by: shadow9d9
Originally posted by: ProfJohn
Is it possible that she is upset about having sex out of marriage?

I have a female friend who was trying to "save" herself for marriage, although she has not been a virgin since high school, however she had sex with her last boyfriend and was very upset about it. Was one of the reasons she ended the relationship with him.

Perhaps having sex goes against her value, but she feels like she "has" to in order to keep your relationship?

BTW: Nice to see there are some ladies out there, or else guys using female avatars... hmmmmm


That is probably one of the most stupid things I've ever read here.

Get used to it, after spamming P&N he is moving into OT to spread the pain.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: E equals MC2
My GF always gets bit teary sometimes during sex. She doesn't cry, but she dabs at her eyes to wipe them off sometimes.

This actually makes me feel bad - I don't know why.

I asked her once why she does this and she's answered it with- "Because I'm a girl."

Eeeenteresting... my ex didn't do this. How about yours?
most girls don't cry like that. she's over-emotional. tell her to knock it off cause it's annoying.
 

spidey07

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man, your girl has ISSUES with a capital I. Crying during sex is not normal and a sign of severe emotional problems.
 

Pepsi90919

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Originally posted by: E equals MC2
My GF always gets bit teary sometimes during sex. She doesn't cry, but she dabs at her eyes to wipe them off sometimes.

This actually makes me feel bad - I don't know why.

I asked her once why she does this and she's answered it with- "Because I'm a girl."

Eeeenteresting... my ex didn't do this. How about yours?

perhaps you should find someone 18+
 

funboy6942

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
i love LOVE sex but i have never cried or even got teary eyed durring or after, even if it was the best orgasm. (sorry for tmi, but its true)

TMI, I think not :D Please share more for I am still confused and need to know each and every detail to get a better "grasp" of the situation ;)

On the OP's question my wife has never gotten that emotion even after several times of O's one right after the other she has never shed a tear of anything. She may of had an overload and asked me to wait a few to catch her breath but never cried. And you know when they tell you to wait I dont for it just brings on yet another wave of O's and drives my wife crazy. Thoes are the times when stop means not too ;)
 

sao123

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Originally posted by: spidey07
man, your girl has ISSUES with a capital I. Crying during sex is not normal and a sign of severe emotional problems.

you have severe emotional problems... as in lack of them

Girls have romantic thoughts about sex... girls get all teary eyed during romantic moments.... = girls get teary eyed during sex.

dont be such a moron.
 

SophalotJack

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Originally posted by: E equals MC2
My GF always gets bit teary sometimes during sex. She doesn't cry, but she dabs at her eyes to wipe them off sometimes.

This actually makes me feel bad - I don't know why.

I asked her once why she does this and she's answered it with- "Because I'm a girl."

Eeeenteresting... my ex didn't do this. How about yours?

Are you sure this is your GF and not a person you are forcing yourself on that you keep in your basement?
 

StormRider

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I once saw parts of an episode of "Sex in the City" where one of the girls was dating "the perfect man". She was so happy! He was everything she wanted in a man! He was good looking, kind, physically fit, had a great job and a sense of humor. Everything was perfect! Then the day finally came when they made love!

But, he was "small down there"! Right after the sex, the camera zooms in on the girl's face as she was lying in bed. And she was crying! She was crying because he was "small down there".

Just more evidence for "men who are small down there" to not even bother with women since "Sex in the City" is really popular with women and women really relate to the show so it must be realistic in its portrayal of how women really think!
 

StormRider

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Originally posted by: shadow9d9
Originally posted by: ProfJohn
Is it possible that she is upset about having sex out of marriage?

I have a female friend who was trying to "save" herself for marriage, although she has not been a virgin since high school, however she had sex with her last boyfriend and was very upset about it. Was one of the reasons she ended the relationship with him.

Perhaps having sex goes against her value, but she feels like she "has" to in order to keep your relationship?

BTW: Nice to see there are some ladies out there, or else guys using female avatars... hmmmmm


That is probably one of the most stupid things I've ever read here.


It doesn't seem stupid to me. I can imagine some girls with values like that and the idea of girls being pressured into having sex is an age old topic in my days.

Maybe for younger people who grew up in a "girls gone wild" environment where sex is purely recreational and a blow job is equivalent to a handshake, it's impossible to believe.
 

sao123

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Originally posted by: StormRider
Originally posted by: shadow9d9
Originally posted by: ProfJohn
Is it possible that she is upset about having sex out of marriage?

I have a female friend who was trying to "save" herself for marriage, although she has not been a virgin since high school, however she had sex with her last boyfriend and was very upset about it. Was one of the reasons she ended the relationship with him.

Perhaps having sex goes against her value, but she feels like she "has" to in order to keep your relationship?

BTW: Nice to see there are some ladies out there, or else guys using female avatars... hmmmmm


That is probably one of the most stupid things I've ever read here.


It doesn't seem stupid to me. I can imagine some girls with values like that and the idea of girls being pressured into having sex is an age old topic in my days.

Maybe for younger people who grew up in a "girls gone wild" environment where sex is purely recreational and a blow job is equivalent to a handshake, it's impossible to believe.

:thumbsup: I find the bolded portion very prevalent today... and very disturbing that this is the current trend.
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: spidey07
man, your girl has ISSUES with a capital I. Crying during sex is not normal and a sign of severe emotional problems.

I tend to agree with this.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: StormRider
Originally posted by: RichUK
Did you accidentally hit the wrong hole?


This would be God's fault for placing the garbage dump right next to the playground.
Some consider it another place to pump and not a garbage dump.

 

Eli

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: StormRider
Originally posted by: RichUK
Did you accidentally hit the wrong hole?


This would be God's fault for placing the garbage dump right next to the playground.
Some consider it another place to pump and not a garbage dump.
:laugh:
 
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Originally posted by: StormRider
It doesn't seem stupid to me. I can imagine some girls with values like that and the idea of girls being pressured into having sex is an age old topic in my days.

Maybe for younger people who grew up in a "girls gone wild" environment where sex is purely recreational and a blow job is equivalent to a handshake, it's impossible to believe.

And yet in this environment of recreational sex, you still can't get any. :p

- M4H
 

natto fire

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Originally posted by: chusteczka
Originally posted by: bob4432
Originally posted by: Tobolo
I think she only cried the time her parents walked in. To be fair though, I almost did to. (Her dad likes guns)
so, i highly doubt he would go to jail over you banging his daughter.....:)

:music:...And that's one body that'll never be found...:music:


The Night The Lights Went Out In Georgia by Reba McEntire


Heh, I am glad that no one recognizes the lyrics I posted. It reaffirms the fact that I have good taste in music.