I guess people change as time passes by...

jEct2

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Maybe I became cynical or something...

$20 bill was lying on the restaurant floor when I went to get lunch. Business was very slow, no one was in the restaurant besides me and the owner. When the owner went to the kitchen to prepare my order, I found the bill on the floor. I hesitated for a good 30 seconds then I kept it for myself.

This made me think on the ride home... Not because I felt guilty, but my action showed how my perspective has changed over the years. Five years ago as an 18 yr old, I probably would've blindly gave it to the owner or at least mention it simply because it's not mine.

I guess my thought process became more challenging.

Was it the owners money? Maybe.
It was lying on the public floor, accessible by any customers that come into the restaurant.
If I mentioned it, would the owner lie and keep the bill for himself? Maybe.

With these in mind, I decided to keep it. Call it smart or self-serving, I don't care. I'm merely speculating on how I see things differently now... more cynical, realistic? *shrug* or just self-justification? The former-me would've seen this as text book example of a 'good deed'.
 

Otaking

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Like the time I found a wallet on the floor, and I asked the person it was closest to if it was theirs, and they said "YES!"

.... stupid me.
 

jEct2

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Originally posted by: ghostman
pffft. That's nothing.

I know it's not. It's not the bill I'm making the fuss about. I really don't give two shiits about what ppl say on the ethical side of this issue. I'm merely bit amused by how I changed which was demonstrated through action.
 

konakona

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do you go to a collge or did you just graduate recently? i guess thats what 4 years of poor college life does to you :eek:
 

jEct2

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Originally posted by: VanillaH
do you go to a collge or did you just graduate recently? i guess thats what 4 years of poor college life does to you :eek:

hahahahahahaha i think it's my church-upbringing that's beginning to shed as I question everything around me. I think this is good.

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oh yea, I just graduated yesterday :beer:
 

Nomada

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You should return the favor; lose a $20 when your broke. Nothing wrong with keeping it, hell, buy a drink for you and the owner.
 
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Originally posted by: Otaking
Like the time I found a wallet on the floor, and I asked the person it was closest to if it was theirs, and they said "YES!"

.... stupid me.

did you see if the ID inside matched?
 

chiwawa626

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Oh come on, at age 18 you wouldn't have kept it, what kind of dork were you? Most people are the opposite, they are wild at 18 and tame as they grow older...lol