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I got her phone number now what?

nateholtrop

Diamond Member
Now what do I do she gave me her phone number last night and I saw her today and she said to call me. So what should I talk about I have 3 hrs. til I call her.

nate
 
Well Nate since you live in GR the weather is always a hot subject this time of year.


"How 'bout those Lions!" No?

Music?
Movies?
Hobbies?
Siblings?
Cars?
 
Tell her you can't get over how beautiful her eyes are. She does have eyes right?
That you can't believe when she walks by it's like watching a ballerina float by. No?

OK, too thick, stick to the weather.

Good Luck

 
the cross of Christ, Sovereignty of God, doctrine of the Trinity, sufficiency of Scripture, glory of heaven...

whoops, that's the girl I'm looking for.

you can talk about things you have in common. Or find out what you have in common cause if you don't have anything in common then it's pointless. And your starting down a road that I think Fathom might be able to tell about. (hope you don't take offense Fathom but I think I remember you saying something about your ex)
 
Have a class with her? Call her and ask what the assignment was. I did that with Kate, 6 years ago. Hook, line, and sinker. 🙂

Rob
 
Good god, people - the weather? That's what old people talk about 😛

If you're in class together - talk about that. If you're not in class together, ask her about her classes, find out if she's had teachers that you have (and both hate 😉), stuff like that. You're in school together, so the most logical thing is to start out with that and then later move on to talk about different stuff. Ask what she does after school, etc

Hope that helped, and good luck with the call 🙂
 
Ask her if she has met your rich uncle yet. You know, the one who is about to die and left you a bunch of money in his will. j/k 🙂
 
qacwac No offense at all, you're right try to find commonalities.

ToolGirl where Nate lives they sometimes measure the snowfall in feet. "Lake Effect Snow!" The weather will always be a fine fall back topic.



 
Fathom5 do you live near me??? or what! because it doesnt matter how old you are when it snows ppl always talk bout it. They dont say how many inches they talk bout how many feet we are gonna get!~!!

haha

Nate
 
Nate I live in Jackson but my folks have a place north of Big Rapids so I'm well aware of snowmobiling back to the cabin and digging down to the door.
 
I got her phone # now what? What a dumb question. You give it to me of course.

If she gave you her # she must see something in you. Your question makes it sound like you don't trust her judgment. When you ask, what shall I do, it sounds like you want to act out some part that isn't you. Let me ask you. What do you want to say to her and what do you want to know about her. Relax, be yourself and have fun.

That'w what I d.........on second thought, maybe you should get somebody's elses advise.



Lots of Luck!
 
Just be yourself and talk about school and what she likes doing and ask her alot about herself. Think of what to say next when shes telling you something because most girls just talk about anything and wont stop talking about it. Try to be funny but not stupid. And say the right things at the right times. Dont say "yeah" all the time say stuff like, "yes" "haha" "of course" "wouldnt you" "yeah" "no sh*t?!" "damn" "are you seriouse". After asking her a couple of questions thats what you'll be saying for the next hour if shes like most girls.
 
ok, here's what you do. Just call and act natural. don't be too pushy or over concerned. treat her like one of your regular friends.

don't try to sound too formal or anything. funny is the best way, if you can do that. funny and/or goofy-adorable type stuff. for example: if you find something to talk about, like school, then make funny comments and stuff like that. joke around. 'tis the key.

Just relax and take it easy.
 
Call her. When you hear her voice, hang up. Then call her again. Repeat. Despite what you normally hear, women really like when you do this.
 
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