I feel weird telling a girl to slow down.... *WITH POLL*

simms

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Not really YAGT, it's not a huge problem...

Basically.. she wants to fvck, and I don't want to yet.

but has it ever happened to you?
 

acemcmac

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yeah. catch 22. you tell them to stop, instant awkwardness and they'll stalk you forever. play along, you won't perform or enjoy it (b/c you really don't want to), it'll get weird and they'll stalk you forever.

women want what they can't have.
 

meltdown75

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been in all sorts of positions. let's see, ahem - "slow down baby. yeah. there ya go." (insert donald duck .wav here)

so, yes. :p
 

simms

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No premature at all. I just said no, and I have to tell her to slow down....
 

Pciber

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Originally posted by: acemcmac

women want what they can't have.

Indeed. Tell her you aren't ready, and she will do everything to make you ready... if you do this, once you ARE ready, it will be better for you and her both :)
 

Auryg

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Oh for God's sake guys..


Yeah, I've been in this postition. Actually got an opportunity for a threesome..the COOL kind..turned it down too.

Anyways, if she's a nice girl, she'll either respect your or just totally give up on you. It's a gamble..but oh well.
 

simms

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: simms
No premature at all. I just said no, and I have to tell her to slow down....
slow down what???????

In the relationship, physically. Like as in if I'm getting more than what I think I should be getting.... at the point in the relationship... ever been in the position to say "this is too much.. I think we should slow down and take things slower"
 

simms

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Originally posted by: Pciber
Originally posted by: acemcmac

women want what they can't have.

Indeed. Tell her you aren't ready, and she will do everything to make you ready... if you do this, once you ARE ready, it will be better for you and her both :)

Probably the best advice ever. Honestly, she's a great girl and I don't wanna lose her. Just that she's really horny as well. Good thing she's damned loyal. :D