I did something stupid - Any good suggestions on how I can make it up to my GF ?

[Bojo]

I don't want to sound like a complete lame ass, I know this is silly asking for suggestions but if anyone has any good ideas apart from apologies/flowers/more apologies/begging/groveling at feet repeating apologies etc. then I'd love to hear them.

 

[GoldenBear]

Well, what'd you do?

 

[Bojo]

I'd rather not say GB

 

[Z24]

you didn't propose, and then justify it by saying, "it's time to sh!t or get off the pot," did you??

 

[Bojo]

HarHarHar. no.

 

[Ronstang]

It's kind of hard to suggest a strategy if we don't know the circumstances. If it's so bad you don't want to tell us then you are probably screwed already...or maybe you won't be anymore. Sorry

 

[Yo Ma Ma]

I did something stupid ... There are so many degrees of stupid it is too difficult to prescribe an adequate counter-measure, if one even exists. Just be honest and give a sincere apology, some things cannot be compensated for with material gifts. Then again, it might not hurt

 

[BlueScreenVW]

Well, poor Bojo, if you've already tried all of those maybe it's time to approach the issue differently: tell her something like "OK, I did this terrible X thing X days (nights?) ago, and I'm sorry as h*ll about it, but I see no real point in apologizing ad infinitum. I love you and that's about it - take it or leave it." Just don't use those words...

What I mean is that sometimes you simply try to apologize too much. If you really mean it (and show it), once-twice should be enough. The fact you did something wrong still remains, but no number of apologies can change that anyway...

 

[OS]

dude, you can tell us, we are just a bunch of strangers on the net who you will never meet

 

[DDCSpeed]

yes, i agree. We are just bunch of strangers you talk to online. Telling us isnt like telling ur buddies in real life because we wont tell anyone about you. and telling us ur situation can better help us understand your situation and provide a good solution for you.

Basically my advice is let it cool down for a couple of days and try to get her back by being the person you were in the beginning to her but nicer. Surprise her with something hard to find. Anyways you should explain more of your situation.

 

[Bojo]

hmmmm well I haven't actually tried anything yet, I'm planning what I will do. Actually she might be totally cool with it in the end. There's noway I'm telling though. Dunno why, it's just too personal.

Anyway yeah you people are right it's too hard to give advice without the full story. I think I'll just do what I can.

 

[The Dancing Peacock]

go down on her, alot.

 

[Emulex]

^^ unless you've somehow managed to contract an STD aside from her

 

[The Dancing Peacock]

good point emulex....maybe get a dental dam in that case :Q

 

[3615buck]

Marry her !

 

[Spamela]

unless she's really tall & you have to go up on her.

 

[gittyup]

Bojo

I am thinking you cheated on her? If I am wrong, please don't take offense...

 

[cxim]

<> I don't want to sound like a complete lame ass <>

You are doing a pretty good job of it, so far.

 

[Azraele]

Give her a sincere apology and ask how you can make it up to her.
You might want to suprise her by cooking dinner for her.

 

[ArkAoss]

uhh fien ignorance.

 

[eakers]

take a calender
write on everyday a different reason why you love her
then everyday she will be able to see how much you love her.

its a lot easier than you think.

*kat. <-- doctor of sweet things

 

[Passions]

how the hell do u expect good advice when u give no details?

&quot;oh please help me God, but sorry I cant tell you what I did.&quot;

pfff.....please.

 

[Muadib]

I must agree with Mr Ribs. I mean come on Bojo, how bad can it be?

 

[madmacks]

i thinks like gittyup... i wouldnt admit that either.

 

[PistachioByAzul]

Say it wasn't you