Did you try a lubricant, some mood lighting, and provocative music?
What happens when you try to grab the blade? I mean something has to give... bondage often brings out a new element in dominance.
Put the blade in a slot in thick wood and use an impact wrench? Use a torch to soften the blade metal a bit in from the teeth, then drill a hole and bolt it in place? Then if you want to reuse the blade, drill a corresponding hole on the opposite side to keep it balanced.
Is it possible the manual is poorly translated into english and it's really a right hand thread? Should be able to tell based on which side the nut's on relative to the blade rotation, nut tightens the opposite direction of blade rotation.
Can you borrow your neighbor's nuts or the pool cleaner boy's, or source a new nut otherwise, maybe dremel away at it and use a nut-splitter, then a die to correct threads on the shaft if they get mangled?
It could be that you're just not that
into her.