I ask for your Prayers...My mother may not make it through the nite...

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newParadigm

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I thankyou all for you kind words, I could puts quotes in here, but im afraid the post would be so long it might make fuse talk crash at this point. My mother passed away a 6:50 today, she was ready to go, and she knew that she had lived a faithful life and that when Christ returns, that she will be raised with all those others that are fiathful believers, to be reunited. In my eyes, my mother left for a trip, just a little bit before my dad and I, that trip is not one of distance, but one of time and of glory. I honor her fiath, she was truly devoted, and I only hope that I can be as strong a believer in the truth of the Gosepl of the Living God as she, so that I will be able to see her once more.

Injury, you're absolutley right, it was so nice that my family, and her very close friends had the time we did last night to spend with her. It gave us so much more closure, and will make this easier on all of us. However, it won't make it go away, and I could never let it, to mourn is to show respect. Lola, I felt the same way: first last night IMing a close friend of mine, I was crying to much to talk on the phone...and then today, after reading all of your wonderful messages. She didn't have to suffer terrible pain or anguish, and she got to be surrounded by people who truly always had her best interests at heart.

To all you who've lost someone to cancer, or lost someone period, I'm sorry, and I thank you too for sending your best, as someone who can truly relate. Again, I couldn't quote, and I certainly couldn't address everyone; all is apreciated.

~Vinny
 
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Lola

I am so sorry to hear this news.
I hope you can find some light in the woman/wife/mother she was and always will be in your heart.
God Bless you and your family.
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Accipiter22

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thank her for having such a great life, and talk to her through prayer still! I firmly believe the dead are still with us, and that God allows us to speak to them, and them to us still. Till you meet her again, remember her always..
 

JImmyK

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I am so sorry to hear this news.
I hope you can find some light in the woman/wife/mother she was and always will be in your heart.
God Bless you and your family.
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funboy6942

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You know back in 1991 when my mother died of cancer she went into a coma. Was in it for 3 days and my brother showed up from LA CA and her and my fathers anniversary was the following day. Well on that next day she was awake. Wide awake and was up and about and talking like there wasnt anything wrong with her at all. She was joking and laughing and none of the doctors could figure it out since the night before almost all of her functions were shut down (she had brain tumers, lung cancer, and liver cancer) and yet on that day when my brother was there and it was thier anniversary here she was awake and all when she was supposed to be dead. She stayed up all day and night with us and if you just come to see her wouldnt of thought she was sick in any way. But that night she went to bed and passed away the next morning at exactly 7am. Its wierd how some people can come through like that. To give you that one last chance to tell them goodbye and to remember them how they used to be and not how they are. It was one of the best last gifts my mother gave to me to remeber her by then to remember her motionless in a coma and passing away. I think your mother was doing her best to do the same for her family with having hardly any blood pressure and talking to you. She was trying really hard to give you the best leave off to remeber her by as well and be thankful she did. I know how you feel and am crying as I write this and wish you the best to you and your family in pulling through this very hard time.
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ngvepforever2

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I am so sorry to hear about your mother. I lost my grandfather to cancer in July of 2005. He was diagnosed with Lung Cancer in April and the doctors gave him 1 or 2 years to live but it wasn't like that and he left us earlier than expected. I have stamped in my head the image of my father crying on the phone while talking to his brother . My father didn't know his dad was going to go that fast and he couldn't even say goodbye in person to his dad (A day after my grandad passed away my father was scheduled to travel to Peru and see him). Nonetheless, a week before my aunts had gone and with them we sent a tape that our family made. We told him how much we miss him and how much we loved him. My aunts,later, told me that he got to see the tape one day before he passed away. He recognized every one of us and had a smile on his face while watching the tape.

I will pray so you and your family have strength to endure this loss and be able to remember every beautiful moment your mom gave you while she was on this earth.

Regards

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49erinnc

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Sorry to hear this. I lost my grandmother, who raised me, a few years ago and I still have a hard time with it. But you just learn to find happiness in the great times you had and the memories that will be with you forever. My grandmother isn't with me, physically, I but know her spirit lives within me every day and helps me get through life.

Best of wishes to you during such a very difficult time. Hang in there and surround yourself with family/friends.
 

JasonSix78

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Vinny, I'm really sorry that your Mom had to go so soon. Both you and I know that she's with the Lord now, happy and free from suffering anymore. I'm going to continue to pray that God will give you and your Dad strength during this difficult time. If you ever need someone to talk to just send me a PM.

-Jason
 

Linux23

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I know how you feel man. My aunt just passed away from lung cancer about two weeks ago. She never smoke or drank but got this horrible disease.

I'm still so sad inside right now, because she was like a mom to me. I feel your pain, and hopefully one day people won't have to suffer through this anymore.
 

ed21x

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there is something really peaceful about knowing that your mother is in good hands now, and you will see her again in better times. God bless,
 

Mathlete

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COME to her assistance, All you Saints of God! meet her, you Angels of the Lord. Receive her soul, and present it to the Most High.

May Christ who called her, receive her;
and may the Angels lead her into the bosom of Abraham.

Eternal rest grant to her , O Lord,
and let perpetual light shine upon her.

I lost my Dad to heart disease 5 and a half years ago. My thoughts and prayers are definately with you.
 

essasin

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I recently lost an uncle due to lung cancer but it is assuring to know they are in a better place